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Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by ccktlmazeltov on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @06:43PM (#22611375)
I think what a lot of nightclubs end up doing is definitely discriminatory and we should not tolerate that.
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by catalogia on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @06:54PM (#22611487)
If the pretty people don't want an ugly guy like me around, then why would an ugly guy like me want to hang out with those pretty people? It seems like a "nothing of value was lost" situation. I'd rather hang out with people that enjoy my presence.

What would shaming them for this accomplish? Is the idea to shame them so much that they pretend to like ugly people like me? What would be the point of that?

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by enneff on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:13PM (#22611673)
Not sure why you’re being downvoted here. Everyone knows that there are exclusive cliques and there always will be. If you desperately want to be part of a group that doesn’t want you, then that’s your problem to overcome.
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by leereeves on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:42PM (#22611906)
> If you desperately want to be part of a group that doesn’t want you, then that’s your problem to overcome.

Tell that to the black people who demanded the right to eat in "white" restaurants.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by rrdharan on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @08:53PM (#22612463)
Wow, so now the nightclub line is a civil rights issue?

This is an incredibly ignorant and offensive analogy.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by leereeves on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @09:25PM (#22612668)
The restaurant counter was one of the first civil rights issues. Not that different from a nightclub. What's the real difference here? That effectively segregating ugly people is more acceptable than segregating by skin color?

The ignorance here is among those who don't understand that people are suffering from this discrimation, and the offense is coming from people who justify and defend it.

Nightclubs and TikTok aren't the most important examples of this, but for people who faced discrimination their entire lives, any victory would make life a little easier.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by kharak on Wednesday March 18, 2020 @03:36AM (#22614431)
So no group can select their members anymore? Nonsense. A model agency will continue to hire exclusively beautiful people. Top tier universities will remain a club for well doers in the education system. My group of friends remains closed to most everyone else and so does yours.

Exclusivity is a necessity for society.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by leereeves on Wednesday March 18, 2020 @04:53AM (#22614759)
No one is trying to end "exclusivity". Harvard is still exclusive even though it now admits a whole lot of people they would never have considered 100 years ago.

But if a group is excluding people based on innate physical characteristics, maybe they should rethink that.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by kharak on Wednesday March 18, 2020 @06:21AM (#22615131)
NBA? Football? Hollywood? And as I said, model agencies?

Many physical attributes are absolutely relevant for a given context.

What we should do, is getting rid of irrelevant and abhorrent discrimination, such as racial selection.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by leereeves on Wednesday March 18, 2020 @08:37AM (#22615884)
That's a meaningless statement. Bigots of the past all felt their personal prejudices were absolutely relevant, and didn't find the discrimination they practiced at all irrelevant or abhorrent.

Society made progress only because people fought against that. They were all accused of fighting against nature, but over time, more people realized those old standards weren't as "natural" as they were once thought to be.

Do you imagine we've reached the pinnacle of human social evolution and tolerance? Perhaps we still have similar lessons to learn, and people of the future will consider our behavior as abhorrent as we consider the 1800s.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by kharak on Wednesday March 18, 2020 @11:42AM (#22617849)
Let's agree to disagree. I'm talking about physical discrimination being not simply valid by the standards of our time, but unavoidable, depending on the context. Short people can't play in the NBA, because they can't compete with bigger players.

The only progress that could push society past that, is genetic engineering. Everyone on equal footing or so different, that sport as we know it ceases to exist.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by leereeves on Wednesday March 18, 2020 @12:42PM (#22618556)
I agree that we can't end all inequalities anytime soon. Men still can't bear children, and women still bear the burden of doing so. Etc.

But that's no reason not to eliminate discrimination when we can.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by afterburner on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:03PM (#22611568)
Why would you not shame them? Shaming is free and legally inconsequential. You are essentially saying no one has the right to complain.
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by dx87 on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:12PM (#22611661)
It costs your time and energy. There must be a better use of your time than trying to shame nightclubs.
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by afterburner on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:13PM (#22611679)
I'm responding to people who are using their time and energy saying they shouldn't be shamed. I wonder why they're wasting their energy with counter-shaming?
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by catalogia on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @09:51PM (#22612787)
That user doesn't speak for me; my time is not so valuable today, which is why I thought to spend some of it casually chatting about a social media website I never had any intention of using. It was never my intention to shame you, nor to deny your right to shame others. If you feel as though I've tried to shame you, then I apologize for the miscommunication.
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by catalogia on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:10PM (#22611650)
I don't shame people unless I think it will accomplish something productive. I wouldn't think of denying that you have the right to shame people for whatever reason you like, but I choose not to do it myself unless I see a good reason for it.
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by afterburner on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:12PM (#22611666)
To affect their behaviour, obviously. To provide negative feedback.
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by v64 on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:38PM (#22611871)
That only works on people who aren't shameless and are willing to reevaluate their own behavior based on external criticism. Sometimes you have to pick your battles.
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by catalogia on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:24PM (#22611757)
So back to my question: "What would shaming them for this accomplish? Is the idea to shame them so much that they pretend to like ugly people like me? What would be the point of that?"

What effect on their behavior do you hope to accomplish by shaming pretty people for not wanting to hang out with ugly people? I'm not seeing a productive reason to do this.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by finnh on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @06:55PM (#22611496)
unattractive people are not a protected class
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by dependenttypes on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:05PM (#22611600)
I am unsure how this is relevant. "protected class" is a legal term, it has nothing to do with morality.

In addition to that I doubt that refusing to sell a cake to someone because they are ugly would be considered an acceptable thing in a court of law.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by thaumasiotes on Wednesday March 18, 2020 @03:37AM (#22614439)
> "protected class" is a legal term, it has nothing to do with morality.

This is not a distinction that most people have the mental capacity to make. Whatever the law is, that's obviously what it should be.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by cma on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:30PM (#22611810)
It is allowed for by courts for hiring decisions when hiring sales people. And things like commission based pay means it happens even if not explicit.

Aside from beauty, if you do things to signal you are poor as a luxury sales person, I’m not sure the company is required to keep you on, right or wrong.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by braythwayt on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:07PM (#22611626)
You’re saying, in effect, that it is not illegal.

Which is not a statement of whether it is moral, or a social benefit. Discrimination against an “unprotected class” can still be worthy of criticism.

For a very long time in Ontario, homosexuals were not protected from discrimination by law. The laws protecting them came about because people would not settle for, “if it’s legal, it must be above reproach.”

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by qtplatypus on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @10:23PM (#22612979)
It depends why they are unattractive. If it is due to a birth defect, dwarfism or some other condition that is also a disability then it is a protected class.
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by rtkwe on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:05PM (#22611591)
Doesn't mean it's not a shitty thing to do.
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by simplify on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:24PM (#22611765)
They are the most highly discriminated against, though.
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by leereeves on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:01PM (#22611561)
And 100 years ago race, sex, and sexual orientation weren't protected classes. Society makes progress, slowly.
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by whoisjuan on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:10PM (#22611652)
But how can you objectively establish that somebody is unattractive? Assuming the world moves into this hypothetical society you're describing nobody wants to be part of that new protected class.

If you're by some semantic classified as unattractive, you will automatically feel segregated and marginalized. This is not like sexual orientation where non-heterosexual people actually have a desire to express their sexuality but this desire is repressed by a regressive, judgemental society. This is exactly why "Gay Pride" is a thing.

Compare that to being unattractive. Unattractive people, whatever that means, don't want to be part of that group. That's a pure factual reality of the human instinct. People want to feel attractive because they have a natural instinct to intermingle and reproduce.

But even if we opt to oversee this particular deficiency when attempting to justify an "unattractive" protected class, the problem is that "attractive" is extremely subjective and usually dictated by societal norms.

What's attractive today wasn't attractive 100 years ago. What's attractive in Africa is not what's attractive in North America. What's attractive for me (even in this dictated herd mentality) is not necessarily attractive to you. The only common factor that all these perspectives share is that nobody wants to be classified as unattractive.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by leereeves on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:16PM (#22611702)
People in this hypothetical protected class are placed there by others. They're already segregated and marginalized, and generally no one asks them if they want that.

We have an example of that right here from TikTok.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by whoisjuan on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:24PM (#22611766)
That's exactly my original argument.

"I determine you're ugly but you can still come into my nightclub" is not that much better than "I determine you're ugly and you can't come into my nightclub"

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by gbear605 on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:30PM (#22611807)
How about “I’m not allowed to use attractiveness to determine if you can come into my nightclub”
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by yakshaving_jgt on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @11:19PM (#22613284)
Good luck ever enforcing that.
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by whoisjuan on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @08:10PM (#22612152)
Because the above counter-argument is that you only belong to this class when people put you in it.
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by leereeves on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @08:21PM (#22612255)
People aren't in or out of a protected class. Protections for race, sex, orientation, etc apply to everyone, even straight white men. Protections for religion even apply to atheists.

The laws prohibit certain behaviors, like excluding people from nightclubs on the basis of skin color. They could easily also prohibit excluding people from nightclubs on other appearance criteria.

Of course no one can control thoughts, and some people will still feel and think hateful things, but that's true for every protected class.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by dependenttypes on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:30PM (#22611811)
Which is why rather than protected classes there must be protected characteristics.
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by def8cefe on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:22PM (#22611740)
>Unattractive people, whatever that means, don't want to be part of that group.

Neither do the elderly, the disabled, etc, but still they are legally protected from descrimination.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by whoisjuan on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:28PM (#22611788)
I guess I wasn't clear enough about that. Disabled people certainly don't want to be part of that classification but there's no subjectiveness when it comes to their disablement.

Unattractive people don't want to be part of that classification and their belonging to that class is 100% subjective in any direction. Even them leveraging their status to get some sort of benefit.

Also, where's the line? Does that mean that rhinoplasty should be covered by insurance under the same merits of sex reassignment surgery?

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by solveit on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:49PM (#22611967)
> Disabled people certainly don't want to be part of that classification but there's no subjectiveness when it comes to their disablement.

You'd be surprised. Being disabled is a spectrum just as being ugly is. It's not just perfectly healthy people vs people missing entire limbs. It's also the person with moderate chronic pain who can do anything they like but not everything they like.

And then there's the whole other subjectiveness that comes from bureaucrats having to classify people into discrete buckets based on how disabled they are. Sure you can't raise your arms above parallel, but does that qualify you for 4C coverage and not just 3D?

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by leereeves on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:37PM (#22611859)
> Does that mean that rhinoplasty should be covered by insurance under the same merits of sex reassignment surgery?

If someone's nose is causing as much distress as gender dysphoria, why not?

Sex reassignment surgery isn't easy to get, and presumably coverage for "corrective" cosmetic surgery would also take some evidence. Patients couldn't just make an appointment on a whim.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by whoisjuan on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:48PM (#22611957)
> If someone's nose is causing as much distress as gender dysphoria, why not?

I definitely agree with you on this one.

But that's where I feel the line gets super blurry. This is not a white or black issue. Gender Dysphoria is an actual documented mental disorder.

Feeling ugly (or in the context of this debate, being classified as ugly), in general, it's not.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by Broken_Hippo on Wednesday March 18, 2020 @03:44AM (#22614472)
Sure, the line is blurry. But so are so many other lines and we can't simply peer into one's mind and see things. Fatigue is a symptom of at least a few autoimmune disorders, but that line is definitely fuzzy and we can't really tell if someone is faking or not.

Body dysorphic disorder is a real thing (probably spelled incorrectly). There are people out there that feel like their limb isn't theirs - it is alien - and go to great lengths to stop it. Some folks spend lots of time and money hiding "flaws" (like their nose), even when they cannot really afford the costs every month, and avoid dating and going out because of these things. Just because it isn't a specific disorder doesn't mean the people are healthy.

And then there is another category altogether: Folks that have had accidents of different sorts. Sure, facial scars from burns or a disfigured nose might not actually cause a psychological disorder and it might not make things physically difficult, but damn it is hard to argue that fixing these things (when possible) wouldn't improve one's quality of life.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by leereeves on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:52PM (#22611989)
Why would it be called a mental disorder? If it's a disorder, it's a physical disorder, whose symptoms are the shitty behavior of other people that it "causes".

Or perhaps a mental disorder in those other people, but that's not likely.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by whoisjuan on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @08:04PM (#22612097)
I guess I'm thinking it more from the perspective of third parties like insurance. Gender reassignment is generally covered by health insurance and exclusions may be classified as unlawful sex discrimination.

On the other hand, your health insurance could easily create subjective definitions to deny coverage. Because unlike gender dysphoria, beauty is not binary.

With Gender Dysphoria there is only one direction when it comes to re-assignment options, and it is fully documented that this surgery is beneficial for the patient's mental health.

With beauty/ugliness, there are hundreds of possible permutations and no documented precedence to validate that this is a necessary surgery.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by def8cefe on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:55PM (#22612011)
Body Dysmorphic Disorder is in the DSM 5.
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by def8cefe on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:46PM (#22611938)
>Unattractive people don't want to be part of that classification and their belonging to that class is 100% subjective in any direction.

The way these laws work would not necessitate that. People who are old, disabled or queer are not required to carry a card or get a face tattoo. You are simply unable to descriminate on that variable, whatever the value is (old or young, able or unable, etc).

>Does that mean that rhinoplasty should be covered by insurance under the same merits of sex reassignment surgery?

Age is a protected class in Canada/Ontario but they don't cover blood boys for seniors under OHIP either (although I will strongly lobby for it in old age).

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by klyrs on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @08:37PM (#22612366)
> But how can you objectively establish that somebody is unattractive?

It's difficult to prove individual cases of discrimination. Evidence can take the form of written commentary about a person's looks, or a documented policy about hiring practices. That is to say, you don't need to prove that somebody's unattractive; only that damage was done on the basis of that perception / judgement.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by uwuhn on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @11:19PM (#22613283)
>But how can you objectively establish that somebody is unattractive?

Dating apps are a good data point to start with.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by bjourne on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @08:37PM (#22612365)
I can assure you that most gay people don't want to be gay either. There is nothing substantial that differentiates these attributes. It's just two features -- some have it, some don't and some have both. It is not "natural" for one of the features to be negative but not the other.
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by qtplatypus on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @10:34PM (#22613027)
“ I can assure you that most gay people don't want to be gay either”

That sentence is super ambiguous.

Do you mean “Most gay people have a desire to be not gay.”

Or “Most gay people lack any desire with regard to there orientation.”

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by LandR on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:43PM (#22611915)
Reminds me of Doug Stanhopes brilliant bit about being ugly.
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by magicalhippo on Wednesday March 18, 2020 @07:35AM (#22615467)
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by LandR on Wednesday March 18, 2020 @09:31AM (#22616418)
Yes!

Mainly his points: "There's no solidarity with the ugly" and "people would rather be called the worst racial slur for their race then be called ugly"

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by lowdose on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:39PM (#22611880)
It's an opinion but if a table is ugly we can also say it right?
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by briandear on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @10:55PM (#22613148)
When it’s your money building and running the club, you can decide who to let in or not. There is freedom of association and the freedom not to associate. If a nightclub was a public service, the argument might hold, but it’s not. However, let’s extend your discrimination opposition to universities— should they be allowed to admit or deny people based on their economic, racial, or other non-academic characteristics?
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by microcolonel on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @06:46PM (#22611408)
As someone who does not frequent nightclubs, I don't really see the problem with a self-selecting group of people with standards?

Some people don't want to see you, and that's their business.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by bjourne on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @08:44PM (#22612408)
About a decade ago there was a huge controversy where I live about many nightclubs limiting the number of immigrant male patrons per night. I guess you don't see a problem with that either?

"Protected class" is a cop out because the question isn't about what the law says but what is moral.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by heartbeats on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @09:04PM (#22612529)
Well, you want to have an exclusive clientele. If you get people who live in the ghetto going there, it's not exclusive. It just causes a poor vibe.

I mean, some nightclubs have immigrants, but nobody goes there because there are too many immigrants.

It's sort of the same thing here with TikTok: on one hand we say that it's bad to ethnically discriminate in nightclubs, on the other hand we don't go to the 'urban' nightclubs, and take it as a good signal when we read the immigrant patrons online complaining about ethnic discrimination.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by afterburner on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @06:51PM (#22611451)
I mean, why give them a free pass for asshole behaviour? You can shame them and leave them alone.
Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by microcolonel on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:00PM (#22611552)
Who are they being assholes to? You don't have a right to invade people's private spaces. I don't have to invite you into my home.

Provided it's not a matter of a protected characteristic, the idea that you can push your way through the door by law is silly.

They go there to meet people who titilate them, and who don't remind them of how life can go wrong; that's their business in my view.

I know that I'm not attracted to ugly, unhealthy, or elderly people, and it's not wrong to feel that way, it is basically natural; and people who are themselves ugly, unhealthy, or elderly also feel these same things that you find ugly to acknowledge.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by afterburner on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:02PM (#22611565)
> push your way through the door by law

I guess you missed the part where I said you can leave them alone.

Re:TikTok told moderators to suppress posts by “ugly” people... by gbear605 on Tuesday March 17, 2020 @07:30PM (#22611814)
A night club is your private home?