In any case, that information seems to have been confirmed by the experience of Western authorities. So I'm inclined to believe it.
The idea here is probably to slow down the spread among kids now, which would slow down the spread to less vulnerable adult populations down the road. The drawback is that if some children are carrying the virus now, there is a short term danger to vulnerable adult populations.
I'm betting they've already wargamed all that out and the numbers right now favor accepting the short term danger?
I would go so far as to suggest that if she can take care of herself, grandma should self quarantine as much as possible for the duration of the crisis. People do not become less dangerous just because they are relatives.
After the family spent 2 weeks in self quarantine, visiting grandma is probably fine.
Many grandparents in the US live nearby and see their grandkids often and often look after them with some regularity. That seems to be the sort of scenario where they'd be employed to watch them while they are in learning from home situations, no? I don't think we are talking about frail people in nursing homes.
Specifically, younger people are sometimes being told to avoid older people, sometimes when the older person is in need.
IIRC, some place had bans/restrictions on visiting nursing homes because the potential for spreading the virus might end up exposing a large percentage of the occupants to a significant chance of death.
No citation because I cannot remember where I read it.
You can be a grandparent of young kids very easily in your late 50s.
(edit: I see I'm being downvoted.... ok. I'm genuinely curious, and also hoping that people aren't keeping their own out-of-school kids away from their own grandparents out of fear)