Re:Children of immigrants have higher rates of upward mobili...
by tartoran on Thursday February 06, 2020 @05:56PM
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Are you an immigrant yourself or a child of immigrant parents? Yes, because immigrants on average have it harder they also work harder. Usually their children reap more benefits but the children's children flake out. Not sure how much of a trend this is but I've noticed this...
Re:Children of immigrants have higher rates of upward mobili...
by m0zg on Thursday February 06, 2020 @06:39PM
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I'm a Russian-American immigrant, yes, a legal one. We had our kid when we were already mostly out of the woods financially though.
Re:Children of immigrants have higher rates of upward mobili...
by tartoran on Thursday February 06, 2020 @09:16PM
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Eastern European fellow here. I came to the states about 20 years ago and the kid came about 2 years ago. Ive had it rough for a while as my dad passed and had to step in to help the family. Stress was something I wish I didn’t have to go through like that. The hardship made the ship sail better though, I understand why the first gen immig are more succesfull: they have to push themselves to the max
I observe this in my (upper middle class) son: he thinks he's set for life, and doesn't put in _any_ effort whatsoever. I told him he's on his own when he's 19, he's a mere 3 years away from that mark, and it hasn't yet sunk in. He thinks he will always have upper middle class existence he's currently enjoying, no matter what, even though with his current grades there's no way he will get into a decent college.
I personally was under no such illusion ever in my life, so I worked super hard to get to where I am today.