I think it was meant more in a tongue in cheek manner. Obviously his dad gave him IT related tasks over the years, but I think both enjoyed it and I imagine it oftentimes was a learning experience for both of them.

I think generally kids can benefit and grow a lot from being treated and talked to like responsible adults sometimes, and not as if they were useless small people that have to be constantly supervised.

Perhaps 'exploit' wasn't the best choice of words :-D. He just had me install OSs/upgrade boxes from time to time after it was clear that I enjoyed it. It was win/win really.