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Re:What happens when your career becomes your whole identity by alisonatwork on Saturday December 28, 2019 @11:19PM (#21903921)
Why does traveling non-stop make you feel like you're side-stepping your role in society?

One of the things i like best about traveling is that i have the time and mental energy to engage with the people around me. I eat at restaurants, i go to bars, i listen and share stories, i'll contribute to the local economy and perhaps put a smile on someone's face.

When i am working i suppose you could say i am contributing to society, in the sense that i am helping to build some software that performs a function our customers appreciate. But most of our customers don't live in my community. And even if they did, i'm not really employed to serve those customers, i'm employed to increase growth so that the company will make more money for its investors. Trickle-down theory says that's still a net contribution to society, but it feels very abstract to me.

Meanwhile, when i work i am too exhausted to spend any of the money i earn doing those things that i would when i travel - i don't spend money at local businesses, i don't talk to other people in the community, i just go home and sleep and go back to work again. It's the life most of us are forced into to survive, but i wouldn't really call it contributing to society, or at least not in as direct a way that people do when traveling.

Re:What happens when your career becomes your whole identity by tempsy on Saturday December 28, 2019 @11:26PM (#21903947)
Solo travel is an inherently selfish pursuit. You are just consuming, and not creating anything of value for society.
Re:What happens when your career becomes your whole identity by Guest0918231 on Sunday December 29, 2019 @12:27AM (#21904139)
They're likely helping to create positive experiences and memories for other people during their travels. Some of my best memories in life are thanks to random solo travelers I've met during various trips.

I met a solo traveler waiting for the airport bus in Thailand, and the next week we did a road trip across the country and back together. I met a solo traveler in Hungary on the train that needed accommodation, so they stayed in my living room and we spent a few days traveling. I met a solo traveler in Italy, and the following week we decided to hitchhike to various coastal cities. Their "selfish pursuit" brought me all sorts of value.

Re:What happens when your career becomes your whole identity by taurath on Sunday December 29, 2019 @03:26AM (#21904803)
What a pessimistic, consumeristic and consumable view of travel. Are stories of travels not value? Are people who's lives you touched not made greater for a friendship, even if for a short time? I'm not saying theres not a way to be a total consumer and a net negative on society as a traveler, but I'd rather society be filled with thoughtful people who've met and made relationships with people of other than someone who slaves away all day at a draft board creating the next phone with 5 more megapixels.
Re:What happens when your career becomes your whole identity by tempsy on Sunday December 29, 2019 @05:05AM (#21905112)
I’m not particularly inspired by people who run away from their problems. I’ve met many people while traveling myself who were perpetually traveling and the vast majority were aimless and uninspired. The worst are the ones that resort to actual begging (yes, it happens) to continuously fund their travel.

It just isn’t an enlightened pursuit. If you want to escape life as a corporate drone or whatever running away isn’t the answer.

Re:What happens when your career becomes your whole identity by MaxBarraclough on Sunday December 29, 2019 @06:32AM (#21905380)
> If you want to escape life as a corporate drone or whatever running away isn’t the answer.

'Escape' and 'running away' are roughly synonymous.

What other escapes do you prefer?

Re:What happens when your career becomes your whole identity by tempsy on Sunday December 29, 2019 @06:51AM (#21905436)
The key difference is responsibility.

You can leave an unfulfilling job for another form of responsibility in life that is more fulfilling.

Endless travel is really just life without responsibility. Having zero responsibility actually does not make most people happy in the long term. It’s an unnatural human state, particularly for grown men, and most will wake up eventually (perhaps once it’s too late) and realize there’s nothing enlightening about a life lived that way.

Re:What happens when your career becomes your whole identity by trevyn on Sunday December 29, 2019 @10:32AM (#21906366)
These are the traditional conservative values and beliefs, yes.

A lot of us think it’s time to design new values and beliefs.

Re:What happens when your career becomes your whole identity by tempsy on Sunday December 29, 2019 @08:56PM (#21910123)
It’s not conservative so much as innately human. A society made of individuals who feel no shared responsibility to contribute to society is literal anarchy
Re:What happens when your career becomes your whole identity by wutbrodo on Sunday December 29, 2019 @09:36PM (#21910335)
As you point out, someone begging to fund travel certainly fits the description of non-contributor to society.

But many (most?) self-fund their ongoing travel, whether through odd jobs while traveling, savings from a previous stable employment, or "digital nomad" work on the road[1]. In that sense, they're just shifting a portion of their contributions from time period B to time period A, in the same way that spending during retirement works. I don't see how this can be described as "feel[ing] no shared responsibility to contribute to society" any more than someone who spreads their contributions more evenly over time: it's just describing the use of money as a store of value.

Re:What happens when your career becomes your whole identity by CalRobert on Sunday December 29, 2019 @08:11AM (#21905708)
When my wife and I couldn't afford to travel we hosted couchsurfers, including solo ones, from around the world and very much enjoyed their conversation (and cooking if we were lucky!)
Re:What happens when your career becomes your whole identity by bobbydroptables on Sunday December 29, 2019 @01:08PM (#21907360)
It's not any more or less selfish than the existence of 90+% of people just going through the motions to get through the day. The "value" most people create for society is a byproduct of that person needing an income. If they could get the same income without doing any work, most would choose that.
Re:What happens when your career becomes your whole identity by DavidRicupero on Thursday January 02, 2020 @10:34AM (#21936189)
Travel has made me a better version. My worldview was so small before. After it, I've learned we are more of a global village than separate nations.
Re:What happens when your career becomes your whole identity by ip26 on Saturday December 28, 2019 @11:50PM (#21904028)
It kind of sounds like what you like best about travel is having free time. In other words it's not about how great travel is, but about how much you dislike like your (all-consuming) job.
Re:What happens when your career becomes your whole identity by alisonatwork on Sunday December 29, 2019 @12:35AM (#21904177)
I don't really hate my job. I think i would rather be a software developer than many other things. I do tend to work around 45 hours, but i don't take my work home with me. Well, not physically. It's more the emotional toll that it takes - having to be extroverted and "on" all through the week uses up all of my spoons. By the weekend i have nothing left.

I definitely would be happier if i had more free time. But my feeling is that i would also be a more productive member of society. At the very least i know i would engage more in the community. I am currently on day 5 of 12 days annual leave, and i am only just getting to the point where i feel i have the energy to venture out of my apartment. Surely this isn't the most efficient way to "contribute to society"?

Re:What happens when your career becomes your whole identity by ip26 on Sunday December 29, 2019 @12:12PM (#21907010)
It sounds like you are doing a lot of things right. I can offer one thought. A coworker of mine once told me that biking to & from work helped him decompress & be emotionally present for his kids when he got home, while driving just brought all the stress right home with him. I've come to agree. Bussing with a mile of walking down a nice lane has also had similar results.