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Re:Amae: Japan’s deep connection to childish relationships by scotty79 on Monday December 16, 2019 @11:03AM (#21804019)
Transactional analysis comes to mind.
Re:Amae: Japan’s deep connection to childish relationships by bdowling on Monday December 16, 2019 @03:13PM (#21806691)
Indeed, the behaviors described in the article immediately reminded me of Games People Play [0], a popular psychology book from the 1960's based on transactional analysis. The book describes various "games" in which the participants attempt play a certain social role to achieve their desired outcome. The ideas and behaviors here are not uniquely Japanese at all.

[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Games_People_Play_(book)