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Re:Dating While Dying by hombre_fatal on Friday December 06, 2019 @01:28PM (#21724620)
Eh, you don't need to get zero ass to make observations about the "dating market". If you can't acknowledge that dating definitely is a crapshoot and can't enumerate some reasons why, then you simply haven't tried.

But there's this meme that any time you lament a negative experience about dating as a man, you're called an incel, an epithet that comes with so much baggage it has no place for HN, imo. Just speak to their points independently.

Being disabled sucks pretty bad. Here's a paraplegic justifying his suicide at the end of his essay: http://www.2arms1head.com/ -- I think stepping in to call someone an incel is just some weird shaming. I'd attract a minuscule fraction of the women I currently if I were a blind guy assuming I even hold it together enough to remain positive. I completely sympathize with their catharsis.

Re:Dating While Dying by TurkishPoptart on Friday December 06, 2019 @07:20PM (#21727488)
Thanks for introducing me to 2arms1head...I've never read anything like this before.