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Re:Greensboro Man Creates Dating App Where He's the Only Guy... by scrollaway on Monday November 25, 2019 @11:45AM (#21629937)
I met a couple of interesting people over the years on OkCupid and Meetic. Three, total. Over nine years. I dated one of them briefly, made excellent friends with another.

I ended up in a now-ended relationship with someone I met in an online forum, and now in a very happy relationship with someone I met at a board game Meetup.

Dating sites made me feel miserable when I used them. Constantly fruitless, frustrating. Any success I've had with them is survivorship bias.

This shouldn't be a numbers game. The fact that it is exacerbates the "inbox bloat" attractive people get.

Re:Greensboro Man Creates Dating App Where He's the Only Guy... by peruvian on Monday November 25, 2019 @02:02PM (#21631528)
> This shouldn't be a numbers game

This is almost exactly how it is in real life though. The more people you approach for a date -> the more chances you might have. And forget actual dating apps - people are using regular social media like Instagram to "meet" people too.