I've always felt arguments like "the parents can choose not to send their kid to their" or "the captor's intention was good" to be insufficient. No matter how that changes, the information/data flows from the captors to the 'captive' person's mind does not change much.
At the same time, it might not be possible to eliminate 'captive' information systems, especially if we loosen the definition of 'captive'. For example, you can pretty much only consume news in the language you know so you are held captive. However if you consume only English news, then you're worldview will be biased. English news only covers the more sensational international stories and journalists, who mostly have good intentions, are biased as well.
I ended up rambling a bit, but the main point is that axiomatic arguments don't solve the problem and the lines between good/bad are too 'fuzzy'. Practical solutions around info/data flow and a good understanding of how it makes the lives of 'captives' and others in the world might have more potential
[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Re-education_through_labor
[1] http://old.seattletimes.com/html/opinion/2002050731_startz01...
[2] https://www.dallasnews.com/news/education/2010/02/23/chainin...
So you're just going to generalize on all parents like that? Believe it or not, there are actually some parents out there who are interested in their child's well-being and involved in their life.
> I’m not going to defend it
It seems to me like you're grasping at straws to do precisely that.
Having spent 10 years in China and having actually visited Xinjiang before, I can assure you I’m not grasping at any straws.