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Re:Coffee Is Hard by bigred100 on Friday October 18, 2019 @04:22PM (#21294778)
She may also be a deranged and unrepentant child abuser who uses whatever societal approval is thrown her way to justify and escalate her abuse. There’s simply no way to know.
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Re:Coffee Is Hard by davinic on Friday October 18, 2019 @04:23PM (#21294788)
You've missed the point.
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Re:Coffee Is Hard by lacampbell on Friday October 18, 2019 @05:22PM (#21295194)
Maybe they understood the point and disagreed with it.
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Re:Coffee Is Hard by mistersquid on Friday October 18, 2019 @05:42PM (#21295324)
The point, if such a thing exists, is to accept any and all of those possibilities with equanimity.
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Re:Coffee Is Hard by bryanrasmussen on Friday October 18, 2019 @06:48PM (#21295674)
sure, but taking one assumption is to approach from a position of harsh condemnation and the other is to approach from a position of possible forgiveness.
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Re:Coffee Is Hard by bigred100 on Saturday October 19, 2019 @11:24AM (#21298951)
Sufficiently deranged people take forgiveness as approval and encouragement. It may be good to forgive and may not (at least in your external behavior—going around internally upset all the time is surely not good for anyone regardless). It requires prudence to figure out one way or the other.
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