> These critical security updates are essential for continuing safe and secure operation of your computer!
> Critical security update x: allows an attacker to take control of your PC
> Critical security update y: ....
> Critical security update z: ....
In the U.S at least we give people personal liberties over much more serious matters such as allowing people to refuse care in a medical context. The health of someone's personal PC is nothing next to that.
On Windows you can delay it many times (by scheduling the restart repeatedly a few days apart) but if you're not vigilant about doing that, it will just go ahead and destroy stuff.
Further, there have been some updates labelled "security" such as in Windows 7, which were actually telemetry. I think the ability to do mandatory updates skewed the perspective of the team behind them as to what constitutes security (eg: this telemtry will help us catch dangerous work flows which do need a fix of some kind!). IMHO, when you take away users autonomy, you make them into the dumb users you fear.
What would be nice though is if they developed a live patching system like the modern Linux kernel allow which means: Windows partial updates without rebooting.