> Windows will now let you carry on without updating until seriously important security updates are a month old.

If I specifically tell it not to install, yes.

If I want it to automatically install everything, then give me a notice it needs to reboot? Then I keep having windows shut down in the middle of the night, right after installing, no notice, no "forcing the hand eventually". Has this changed in the last couple months?

At least they seem to have finally figured out how to get virus definition updates automatically while reboot-needing updates are set to notify.