For me it does as a major part of my opinion forming mechanism is actually listening to the official declaration of countries regarding matters of importance to me.
Is there a reason why you are asking me these questions? Should it not matter? Am I an idiot for listening to the official statements of countries regarding international matters?
I feel like you anthropomorphize this situation almost to irrelevance.
"This country complained, this one didn't." is such a simplification that I think you're missing the actual topic.
If two countries nuked each other and one complained more, would it matter?
No.
> If two countries nuked each other and one complained more, would it matter?
For me, yes, the official statements on the nuking countries would matter.
Countries make statements for internal audiences, external, etc. They're hardly a good indicator of much of anything.
Let alone that you'd be basing your opinion about what they said, not what they did.
Does that, matter?
Does your hearing one country talk about this topic, and you not hearing another country talk about it matter or mean something in some way?