Where you are born is more predictive of your future than any other factor

Re:Where you are born is more predictive of your future than... by james_s_tayler on Tuesday September 17, 2019 @11:15AM (#20996147)

>Do you understand what it is like to be a woman, to have to look over your shoulder so much of the time, the fear and anxiety that follows you or prevents you from walking alone at night or in a strange place?

I like how women think this uniquely applies to them.

As if all men are just brimming with confidence, completely unafraid and always ready to do battle. As if they can walk past a hooded figure on a dark street and physiologically remaining completely unaffected.

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Re:Where you are born is more predictive of your future than... by carti on Tuesday September 17, 2019 @12:53PM (#20997361)

If you can't recognize the difference, you aren't talking with or listening to enough women in your circle about this sort of thing. I would highly encourage you to do so.

Regardless, the parent is not saying that men don't also experience the fear of violence.

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Re:Where you are born is more predictive of your future than... by james_s_tayler on Tuesday September 17, 2019 @04:23PM (#20999665)

I'm sorry but what's the difference?

The parent said "do you know?" Implying that as a male I had zero knowledge of what it's like to feel that way. Which implies that I have never felt that way. Which implies that whenever I'm in a situation that makes a woman feel that way, it doesn't make me feel that way.

I'm sorry but it does. So,yes I do know.

Is it worse for women? My assumption is at least 2x ~ 3x. The difference being when I walk past a shadowy figure in the street I mutter to myself "please don't kill me" while they think "OMG, please please please don't kill me".

The vectors point in exactly the same direction. The magnitude is what's different.

The original comment implied the vectors didn't even point in the same direction or had zero magnitude for men.

That's wrong.

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Re:Where you are born is more predictive of your future than... by hope-striker on Tuesday September 17, 2019 @01:25PM (#20997730)

Honestly, I have no friends, so I'd really appreciate it if you could explain the difference as best as the Internet allows.

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Re:Where you are born is more predictive of your future than... by eevilspock on Tuesday September 17, 2019 @03:07PM (#20998952)

It's best you ask some women you know in person (female colleagues at work, female friends of your friends, your sister(s), your mom), and listen to them in earnest.

You may make some female friends this way. Men who listen to women, who truly listen, are rare.

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