The Offer -- which underpins a whole lot of social life here -- goes something like this: if you swear yourself to us body and soul (see my numerous posts about work/life balance here), we guarantee you against most forms of risk. You will receive steady paychecks, predictable raises/promotions, a suite of benefits, and the unwavering loyalty (and social support) of the company until the day you die.
Whereas American corporations haven't had that spirit for a long time (replacing it with a letter-of-the-law attitude) and a number apparently actively seek to exploit their employees' delusions that some might still have that spirit, as this MySpace example perhaps illustrates.
Like I said, it's probably not quite as much as once was but there is no doubt remnants of that still there.
Chris Dixon eloquently articulated the types of work relationships that exist more commonly in the developed world. Broadly, there is the transactional view (as per Jack Welch) or the collective view (eg a startup where you have some equity stake in the company).
To give an example of what companies expect from people (told first hand from people I know personally, or even witnessed myself): you may be asked to work overseas (which most Japanese hate) in a matter of days. That is, the company will tell you: could you please work overseas for one year starting next week ? You can say no, once, if you don't mind having no career in the company. Worse, I have seen the situation where people were given that deal, to be said the day of the depart that no, they won't be needed overseas overall. Note that those people often have wife, children, etc...
You would have to be a singular company to make me trust any promise, explicit or implicit, about monetary or non-monetary compensation which had a time horizon longer than a paycheck cycle. I'm not intending on ever being a salaryman again, but if I were, an American company which even suggested the desirability of a deathmarch would receive a firm handshake and my two-weeks notice immediately. (There are quite a few Japanese companies where I'd actually trust the company to make good on its side of The Offer. It's still not a good offer, but it's at least understandable to me that someone might take them up on it.)