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Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by oh_sigh on Saturday September 07, 2019 @06:05PM (#20906875)
> "I live in the gritty real world. Now let me tell you about my international experiences with the ultra wealthy, you hick."

How do you tell the difference between the sex-trafficked, forced-into-servitude eastern european model-assistants, and the eastern european models who see an opportunity to make a lot of money and a lot of connections, and take it?

Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by liability on Saturday September 07, 2019 @06:10PM (#20906920)
I strongly disagree with the notion that this is something you need to personally witness to recognize. The dynamics involved in an old rich man surrounding himself with very young women are not something that requires much life experience at all to pick up on.

The people who are blind to it are probably willfully blind, not naive. (Excepting young children of course.)

Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by nf8nnfufuu on Saturday September 07, 2019 @06:28PM (#20907048)
In general, old rich men have no special powers over young women. It seems conceivable that usually, they choose to be around him of their own free will.

Otherwise, please explain what special powers old rich men would have over young women.

Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by coldtea on Saturday September 07, 2019 @06:53PM (#20907197)
>Otherwise, please explain what special powers old rich men would have over young women.

The power that comes from being rich, well connected, parading powerful friends (even judges, politicians, financiers, and so on), aides, bodyguards, the means to have them beaten or killed if you want to, and so on? The power to get them fired from their jobs? The powerful to do "Eyes Wide Shut" level shit to them and them knowing it?

Or you expected some magical power that applies to every old rich person in any situation between them and a young woman?

Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by nf8nnfufuu on Saturday September 07, 2019 @07:03PM (#20907257)
So you assume every time young women are staying with an old rich man, they have been extorted to do so?

Sorry, that seems extremely unlikely. I find it shocking that you think that way.

Just because somebody is rich also doesn't mean they can simply destroy other people's lives at will.

Btw I have personally witnessed for example young women courting old professors, who certainly didn't have any power to destroy their life. They did have some power to further their career, though.

Expect: yes, I think in most cases it is simply that the young women expect some advantage from the rich guy. Maybe just material things, or maybe just more fun. Maybe they enjoy riding on yachts more than riding on skateboards, or whatever.

Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by fromMars on Saturday September 07, 2019 @10:33PM (#20908228)
Yeah, this all seems strange to think that young women are only coerced into relationships with old men.

I have seen many young women court older men for various reasons.

The term sugar daddy comes to mind.

One can question the basis of such relationships, but I think it's a huge stretch to suggest they always arise out of force or coercion.

Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by liability on Saturday September 07, 2019 @06:50PM (#20907172)
When the subject of discussion is a man known to be involved in human trafficking, being so trusting and naive does not a lick of good.

You seem to be repeatedly ignoring the context of Epstein's criminal conviction.

Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by nf8nnfufuu on Saturday September 07, 2019 @07:05PM (#20907264)
No, this wasn't about Epstein, but about the general claim of rich old men having power over women.
Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by simonh on Sunday September 08, 2019 @12:43AM (#20908666)
This whole thread is in the context of the actual trafficking and sexual abuse of minors. You can’t get away from that context. No matter how much you try, it’s the place your in here, in this discussion and I think it’s worth taking that into account.

Inadvertently I’m sure, your and some other people’s posts here come across as normalising the outward behaviour of Epstein and people like him. But the behaviour of Epstein in particular is not normalisable. The women concerned about the status of the girls Epstein took with him weren’t faced with ‘a rich guy with some young girls’. They were faced with this rich guy with these young girls, face to face, with all the emotional context of actual direct human interaction.

I can image he a situation in which I meet an older guy with some young girls and it’s all fine. I can also imagine ones where I would be deeply uncomfortable and queasy about the interpersonal dynamics going on.

The women at the lab weren’t in a hypothetical situation, they were in a specific real life situation, and the way it made them feel was clearly very, very uncomfortable to the point of deep distress.

So I can see why you think talking about hypotheticals is all fine and you don’t understand why it upsets people. But a lot of wealthy powerful people have spent a lot of effort trying to normalise, justify, write off and cover for Epstein’s behaviour. Those efforts created a context where Epstein was able, again, to traffic and sexually abuse children. So any direction of the discussion towards a context that even inadvertently appears to be normalising any aspect of his behaviour, well, I’d say this thread at this time on this topic isn’t the time or place.

Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by mulmen on Saturday September 07, 2019 @06:08PM (#20906900)
Critical thinking can extend beyond the ability to find the most efficient API to solve a problem.
Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by oh_sigh on Saturday September 07, 2019 @06:14PM (#20906940)
I have to assume you meant to reply to someone else in some other thread, because otherwise this is just a massive non-sequitur.
Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by coldtea on Saturday September 07, 2019 @06:15PM (#20906954)
He basically says that one can use critical thinking to "tell the difference" between the two categories, which is hardly a non-sequitur.
Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by googlryas on Saturday September 07, 2019 @06:21PM (#20906995)
Is the critical thinking "Epstein did bad things. Therefore, everything Epstein did was bad"?

Critical thinking can tell you there is a higher chance the women were sex trafficked considering the employer and his immoral proclivities. It can't tell you if they actually were or not.

Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by coldtea on Saturday September 07, 2019 @06:30PM (#20907057)
No, the critical thinking mentioned, is:

1) If a powerful man who has been accused of sex trafficking

2) shows up with two girls less than half his age,

3) who are from eastern europe (while he is an American, not exactly where he'd get girlfriends or assistants),

4) he passes them of like his "assistants",

5) while they look like models,

6) and they make everybody uncomfortable to the point of telling them to signal whether they're there against their will

then critical thinking says he's more probably than not indeed sex trafficking, and there's something really shady in his relationship with the two girls...

Not, "they're surely just his assistants, nothing to see here, why would anybody consider anything else going on without some written testimony, a full confession and perhaps lab evidence?"

Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by AndrewBissell on Saturday September 07, 2019 @08:16PM (#20907627)
This thread is amazing. Epstein could have confessed to personally trafficking children from the former Yugoslavia (an actual thing that Blackwater was involved in, btw), and if he showed up 5 years later with a couple of barely legal Eastern Europeans in tow, there'd be commenters ready to insist you never can tell for sure!
Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by jacquesm on Sunday September 08, 2019 @02:36AM (#20908963)
The amazing thing to me is and yet at the time nobody actually did anything. That is why he got away with it for so long, he could repeat the same thing that already got him convicted once with such impunity because everybody was willing to look away when confronted with the specifics.

Each and every one of those people underneath Ito who suspected something might be up had the opportunity to do something about it, including going to the board, and given their suspicions they should have. And yet, nobody did.

Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by bigmit37 on Saturday September 07, 2019 @08:47PM (#20907774)
My thoughts exactly. My jawing is dropping at the lengths people are going to defend this situation.
Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by googlryas on Saturday September 07, 2019 @11:03PM (#20908351)
What do you think the motivations are behind someone defending a dead pedophile?
Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by selimthegrim on Saturday September 07, 2019 @10:10PM (#20908150)
His associate who was convicted was indeed from former Yugoslavia
Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by davrosthedalek on Saturday September 07, 2019 @07:09PM (#20907285)
So you say "no", but then explain how critical thinking leads to "then critical thinking says he's more probably than not indeed sex trafficking". How is that different from the statement "Critical thinking can tell you there is a higher chance the women were sex trafficked considering the employer and his immoral proclivities" except putting that higher chance at >50%?
Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by nf8nnfufuu on Saturday September 07, 2019 @07:35PM (#20907431)
Sorry, but 1) is really the only valid indicator here (and it wasn't mentioned in the story). Otherwise you are denying attractive young women from Eastern Europe the ability to get work in the US.
Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by pasquinelli on Saturday September 07, 2019 @07:49PM (#20907494)
I reckon it's a comment on your unwillingness to consider the context in this conversation. Epstein was a sex offender who had been convicted of raping children and he comes in flanked by young women, possibly children. Isn't that suspicious?
Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by coldtea on Saturday September 07, 2019 @06:13PM (#20906939)
>How do you tell the difference between the sex-trafficked, forced-into-servitude eastern european model-assistants, and the eastern european models who see an opportunity to make a lot of money and a lot of connections, and take it?

There's not much difference between the two camps, especially if the "models" are just teenage girls from some Eastern European village or pre-adult girls (as low as 14) from broken poor families as he lured in the US, forced into it for the money or lured with promises of exposure, and often given drugs, beaten and passed around to "friends", and not professional models with actual (even if small) careers that saw an opportunity to make more money...

You might not know all this from mere looking, but you can see a lot of dynamics in direct play, especially if you know more stories about the same person...

(Also, I'd paraphrase the "summary" you did, more like "These things might not be obvious to some people without such exposure, but they do happen all the time in certain circles/countries/etc, and many people can tell when such shit goes on". Oh, and it doesn't have to be "ultra wealthy" at the Epstein-level, you can meet lower rent versions of such types at all scales, down to your friendly local scam rich from e.g. real estate, or construction, or political affiliations, or some state-given monopoly, etc).

Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by nf8nnfufuu on Saturday September 07, 2019 @06:32PM (#20907070)
Some of the things you mention are different from the others (drugs, maybe lies). But overall, in my opinion you are taking away too much agency from the women. It is too easy to blame somebody's actions on "manipulation". That would be a wildcard to accuse anybody of anything you want.
Re:Joi Ito Resigns from M.I.T. Media Lab After Outcry over J... by coldtea on Saturday September 07, 2019 @06:49PM (#20907164)
Some of the "women" (including some who testified) were 14 year old at the time, and a majority below 18.

He once jocked for a 17 year old that "she is getting too old for me".

The girls were scouted and selected by a group of trusted aides "from troubled backgrounds, either in the foster care system, from broken families, or below the poverty line"...

Not sure how much 'agency' we should give them.

These are not really women going with some boyfriend or merely a young girl with a much older guy. E.g. I'm OK with Louis CK asking to masturbate, and then doing it when the women said yes (I don't consider their "yes" to be any kind of manipulation, rich or not, powerful or not, they could always say no).