For example, "hi, how are you?" Is something you could say to an adult or a child. It's not "speaking to someone like they are a child" though.
Does that make sense?
> For example, "hi, how are you?" Is something you could say to an adult or a child. It's not "speaking to someone like they are a child" though.
The example we have here is more along these lines:
A: Salutations!
A: Oh, I'm sorry -- I meant, "how are you?"
This is an example of speaking to someone like they are a child. You come out with a natural (for you)[1] word choice, and then pre-emptively decide your interlocutor can't handle it, so you adjust to something you believe is simpler. You are speaking differently than you would normally.
[1] http://www.basicinstructions.net/basic-instructions/2009/1/2...
> It's the usual way you would explain the action to someone else.
How exactly are you contrasting these? Which words do you think toddlers are likely to know?