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Re:She Wanted a Man with a Good Job Who Is Nice to Animals by pluma on Monday August 19, 2019 @01:31AM (#20735129)
> Owning a cat however isn't the same, and could have a negative effect.

Is this about the American attitude that dogs are always boys and cats are always girls, i.e. having a cat is "less manly"?

The only two things I can think of are that dogs naturally lend themselves to meeting people because they need to be walked, act as a conversation starter and may even approach strangers themselves; and that dogs are (apparently especially in the US) more socially accepted than cats, so the chances of someone being a dog person (or familiar with dogs) being higher than for cats.

Re:She Wanted a Man with a Good Job Who Is Nice to Animals by dwd on Monday August 19, 2019 @02:48AM (#20735471)
I think it's a perception of cats from people who have never owned one and only grew up with a dog, and were brought up to not like cats.

These kinds of dog people tend to associate with the traits in their dogs they like or wish about themselves. I think they then associate cat owners with cat traits (particularly negative ones).

Re:She Wanted a Man with a Good Job Who Is Nice to Animals by kwhitefoot on Monday August 19, 2019 @02:49AM (#20735474)
> the American attitude that dogs are always boys and cats are always girls

Really?

How odd.

Re:She Wanted a Man with a Good Job Who Is Nice to Animals by mrkstu on Monday August 19, 2019 @09:49AM (#20737701)
Yep- all the dogs my wife and I have owned have been female- yet, nearly universally, everyone has presupposed them to be male.

Our one cat, on the other hand, though male, was presupposed to be female.

It's definitely a thing.

Re:She Wanted a Man with a Good Job Who Is Nice to Animals by dwd on Monday August 19, 2019 @07:15PM (#20742589)
Weird.

Personally, I would choose a female dog and male cat every time. Less dominant and more bidable dog and a less skitish cat who's more likely to not take crap from the dog at meal time.

Re:She Wanted a Man with a Good Job Who Is Nice to Animals by magduf on Monday August 19, 2019 @12:32PM (#20739217)