There's a thing called "motivation". You could learn to eat glass chunks and become the best glass eater. But why the hell would you do that?
Being a software developer too, I feel useless for my local community which simply doesn't need those skills. Pretty much all I can do is to earn some money and help others to play an interesting and popular game of survival (no matter whether you need some food or just another car to survive).
For this reason I started learning chemistry and medicine, but the latter one is more about convincing people than having actual knowledge, and the former appears to be just as useless as coding.
So one of the best solutions people find in my region is to run the hell away from here to where you can help yourself, instead of sitting here and realize your helplessness. So might it also be your advise? To move to the place where you can be the best and find the environment where you will be usefull.
You'd better provide some example, because for now I don't really see how the software engineering skills would help. Anybody can gain some basic IT knowledge and use it, but the extensive coding skills I have seem to be surprisingly unwanted locally, although much more demanded abroad.
Here's the process I follow, it's simple, but it takes time.
Get involved in an activity -> Become proficient in the activity -> Notice the places software would be beneficial -> Implement -> Product.
>You may leave them in a worse situation as now they have less control, less understanding and if they need to change things and you or someone very similar to you (which is a rare combination) is no longer available, they're basically stuck.
Not much is worse for the world than people who want to improve it that aren't perfect themselves.
Saw this recently, it seems like it might apply:
"Of all tyrannies, a tyranny sincerely exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It would be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end for they do so with the approval of their own conscience.”
― C. S. Lewis