Re:Japan's Women Opt Out of Marriage
by dmaldona on Saturday August 03, 2019 @12:35PM
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I am employed and I earn my own money, but I am not truly "independent".
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What constitutes "true independence"?
The OP means that if you earn your own money, then you do not depend on your spouse for income. This provides you with more freedom than you would otherwise have. Both because you can divorce and still have income, and because your spouse can no long argue "This money is earned entirely by me, so I have complete discretion over how it will be spent".
Well yes, we are all as such under capitalism. But it's a matter of degree.
What I want to discuss is the underlying premise of these articles, that by woman being liberated from the burden of the family, they achieve a sort of independence that leads them to increased happiness. And furthermore, that this trend is nothing but the next step in societal evolution and previous models of organization are not only outdated, but a form of subjugation.
It is a bit odd. I suppose by this light, men's increased participation in home life and parenting represents a forgoing of their independence and an reduction in their happiness. This does not seem to be the case e.g. in Scandinavia.
>under capitalism
What economic system do you propose that has the most individual independence?
One where I don't witness the majority of my peers doing pointless socially unnecessary work because profit is the dominant justification for most economic activity.
Does this system have a name? Where can I read more about this system that doesn't pressure anyone to work?
Why do you think it yet exists? Do you think we've reached the end of history? I don't think we even know where to start.
All of the greatest problems looming on our horizon are tied to how we organize production and consumption.
>Why do you think it yet exists?
Because I asked about it, and you answered by confidently describing it, instead of saying "it doesn't exist."
I described something by saying what it isn't. I think you understand the concept of looking for something having some idea of what it is and isn't, but not knowing exactly what it would be.
To an outside reader, it sounds like you know exactly what it is but are trying to not call it by its name for some reason.
To me, another outside reader, daenz sounded like the one who knew exactly what answer he wanted to hear, right from the start. This is actually a very strange question to ask that early in a conversation what name such a basic and legitimate but abstract desire could have.