All the shittiest managers/administrators I’ve met spend a lot of time talking up their “opportunity” and putting down the candidate/employee. It’s just grade school level manipulation from emotionally stunted adults. But if OP was fishing for it to prove a point that’s immature.
Candidates shouldn't be groveling on their knees, and any hiring manager who expects that should be avoided at all cost, because they're selecting on willingness to be abused. But it shouldn't be the other way around either; hiring an asshole is not good for the company.
I'm happy to talk about code I've written, or pair or walk through complex code in an interview, or refer you to my github, but if you ask for a link to a small amount of code in your application that "makes you proud", I'll send over code that made me proud for some reason whether or not it was technically 'good code'. I explained my reasons in the application. I stand by it as code that would have been a good indicator to me of someone's ability to problem-solve if I was on the hiring end.
The second one was basically a "not interested" note, yes. I'm not going to just accept a power dynamic where someone tells me that they already have significant reservations about me, but they are going to 'give me a chance to impress them' - if other people don't mind wooing hiring managers that openly flaunt power dynamics like those, more power to them.
There's a big difference between saying, "Hey we liked you and we also want to talk through some code you've written that you are very technically proud of, let's set up a video chat" and what was said here.
Hard to have sympathy with this guy, as a result.
Why would you ever do that? The whole point of sending over code is so that they assess whether you can write understandable code. I don't know what you have to benefit from this.
> I sent over some different code, it was a 5 line code change that halved the average response time of an API. But I also said you know, I’m not interested in auditioning for you. Either we’re a good match or we’re not, but I’m not particularly interested in being “grateful for the opportunity to apply”, frankly I think you should be grateful that I took a few hours out of my day to explore whether we want to build something together…
Why would you even? Just why?