You have hit the nail right on the head!
The costs(in various dimensions) of an Engineering decision in projects of this magnitude is borne by the whole population itself. Therefore the populace must have a seat at the decision-making table to choose amongst alternatives.
So the interface between the engineers and the people is not to find solutions together, or to find flaws together, but for engineers to find solutions and flaws, and the people to pick the one that they are happiest with.
(I'm not certain my understanding of the quote is right, just sharing my interpretation / an alternative to the ones you shared)