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Re:Are we happier when we spend more time with others? by kd5bjo on Wednesday July 24, 2019 @09:14AM (#20514896)
On the opposite end of the scale: go to a sporting event and cheer on the home team. You’ll be in an energetic group with common purpose, and no expectation to hold a conversation of any kind.
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Re:Are we happier when we spend more time with others? by humanrebar on Wednesday July 24, 2019 @04:50PM (#20519528)
My point was that "how am I minmaxing my life?" is a poor foundation for a healthy relationship on an ethical level if not a practical one. Go ahead and start with being focused on others and trust that the personal benefits will follow.

Cheering on an underappreciated club might have the same benefits, but I'm mostly doubtful that consumer activities, albeit fun and mildly social ones, qualify as being externally focused.

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Re:Are we happier when we spend more time with others? by taborj on Wednesday July 24, 2019 @09:47AM (#20515200)
Can confirm; generally dislike going out around people, but love me a good baseball/softball game.
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