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Re:Self-distancing can help you make better decisions by maroonblazer on Saturday May 25, 2019 @08:25PM (#20012349)
>Self-distancing is the act of increasing the distance from your own egocentric perspective when assessing events and emotions that you experience.

It's odd that there's no mention of meditation as a way to achieve this effect, since that's arguably its biggest benefit.

Put another way, as someone once said: Wisdom is the ability to take your own advice.

Re:Self-distancing can help you make better decisions by hsitz on Saturday May 25, 2019 @11:29PM (#20012906)
Yes, this does seem like it's closely related to a habit you develop through meditation. However, the "self-distancing" seems worse to me than meditation, since it seems to advocate taking a distance from the "true self" of feelings and thoughts. Meditation encourages the [better]route of recognizing that feelings and thoughts are not parts of your true self at all.
Re:Self-distancing can help you make better decisions by fwip on Sunday May 26, 2019 @12:24AM (#20013130)
What do think is your true self, if not feelings or thoughts?
Re:Self-distancing can help you make better decisions by Auready on Sunday May 26, 2019 @01:05AM (#20013263)
According to Buddhism there is no true self.
Re:Self-distancing can help you make better decisions by Conjoiner on Sunday May 26, 2019 @02:09AM (#20013399)
According to Buddhism, is there truth that a self can hold?
Re:Self-distancing can help you make better decisions by serpi on Sunday May 26, 2019 @04:22AM (#20013782)
No. The separate self is an illusion and can not truly know anything. Only I am is known.
Re:Self-distancing can help you make better decisions by Conjoiner on Tuesday June 04, 2019 @10:02AM (#20095085)
Do Buddhists hold this to be true?
Re:Self-distancing can help you make better decisions by anoncake on Sunday May 26, 2019 @06:22AM (#20014169)
Meditation is not necessarily Buddhist.
Re:Self-distancing can help you make better decisions by serpi on Sunday May 26, 2019 @04:24AM (#20013789)
Search this source of emotion and thought. Who is it that experiences it. The answer can not come from the mind since what you perceive can not be you. This is self enquiry and can lead to revelations.
Re:Self-distancing can help you make better decisions by riskneutral on Sunday May 26, 2019 @12:35AM (#20013178)
I would go further and say that meditation is the only way to reliably and truly actualize such a state of mind.
Re:Self-distancing can help you make better decisions by Vinnl on Sunday May 26, 2019 @05:57AM (#20014096)
I consider self-distancing to be one of the things I'm relatively good at. I've hardly ever successfully meditated, though. Furthermore, the article mentions a couple of other techniques that appear to reliably help with self-distancing.

I'm sure meditation helps, but I wouldn't rule out other options for achieving this particular goal.

Re:Self-distancing can help you make better decisions by maxerickson on Sunday May 26, 2019 @04:40PM (#20017363)
Can't that just put things in a circle? Where if you are self distancing then you must be doing whatever meditation is?