Re:You don’t want a child prodigy
by chrisseaton on Friday May 24, 2019 @04:08PM
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Why do you want them to be urban in particular?
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Re:You don’t want a child prodigy
by moneytide1 on Friday May 24, 2019 @05:51PM
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Why did this simple, unassuming question get downvoted I wonder? Interesting to see that there is a negative connotation associated with questioning an urban life.
They are urban kids. The parent wants them to be normal.
He was not expressing a judgement about kids who are not urban. The question about an urban bias seems hyper defensive and inappropriate in response to a very personal wish.
Re:You don’t want a child prodigy
by andrewstuart on Friday May 24, 2019 @06:15PM
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It's just an expression of the ordinary.
What I mean is - it's up to them what they want to be.
I don't see fame or being incredible as valuable things to pursue.
Solid human relationships, kindness, satisfaction in work - these are the things that matter.
Doesn't mean that pursuing financial success isn't valuable and worthwhile - as long as that's what you want.
Re:You don’t want a child prodigy
by chrisseaton on Friday May 24, 2019 @06:18PM
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> Solid human relationships, kindness, satisfaction in work - these are the things that matter.
You can get all these things in rural communities as well.