You don’t want a child prodigy

Re:You don’t want a child prodigy by ddoolin on Friday May 24, 2019 @04:06PM (#20004846)

As an anecdata, I played games heavily as a kid, until my early 20s. I didn't stop completely, and I wouldn't say I enjoy working more, but I prefer many other things before I reach for a controller/mouse+kb. I don't know if the brain flip is accurate as it makes it sound sudden, but for me I just developed more interests all of which fight for ever-shrinking time.

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Re:You don’t want a child prodigy by tombert on Friday May 24, 2019 @04:15PM (#20004891)

I'm the same way; from ages ~5-21 or so, I played video games almost-daily, but now I tend to keep myself entertained by programming something...not necessarily for my employer, but also not necessarily not for my employer.

I can't quite tell if it's because I like programming more, or if it's because as I get older, I have trouble justifying stuff that I know won't help with monetary or intellectual fulfillment.

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Re:You don’t want a child prodigy by Alex3917 on Friday May 24, 2019 @04:38PM (#20005076)

I think this is accurate. As you get older it’s more obvious that video games are kind of an artificial happiness, similar to doing mushrooms or something. It’s not that they’re not fun per se, but it’s hard to actually feel good about spending lots of time doing something that’s not going to contribute to your long term wellbeing.

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Re:You don’t want a child prodigy by fzeroracer on Friday May 24, 2019 @06:58PM (#20006016)

Almost everything we do is technically artificial happiness, it just matters how personally satisfied you are with what you do for entertainment.

I don't think it really has anything to do with recognizing something as being artificial happiness. It just has to do with change. There are speedrunners who code for a living, come home and compete for the fastest times on any number of games, spend their time attending things like AGDQ or contributing to the various micro communities within the scene.

I think people tend to fall into either passive or proactive mindsets for their hobbies. And it's a sort of spectrum over time influenced by the communities you belong to. If you're part of a community for your hobby, then you get more out of it due to community momentum. Sort of like the person who plays games to relax after work, versus the person participating in a speedrunning community for a specific game.

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Re:You don’t want a child prodigy by finder83 on Friday May 24, 2019 @07:42PM (#20006211)

Fair, and kids have made it very difficult to play games. As have other hobbies, reading sometimes takes priority, etc. So maybe I'm similar. I still enjoy a good game every once in a while though and go through phases.

I would say that I don't get addicted like I used to when I was a teen. I've often attributed that to realizing it was a destructive behavior and learning from it though. If I had more time, I would probably play more though.

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Re:You don’t want a child prodigy by Demigod33 on Friday May 24, 2019 @04:23PM (#20004947)

Among other things, today's technology is simply not good enough to enable learning to show what wonders one may (with time and effort) achieve.

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