That's legitimate; lifetime parameters are a new concept that aren't found in any other language. They naturally require a learning curve. Lifetime elision—making it so that you don't have to see lifetimes in most cases—is the main way we tried to make them easier.

My advice would be to completely forego lifetimes handling until much later in time. It is a difficult part of the language to master but it gets much easier once you get more practice. Get well acquainted with the rest of the language and you'll pick them up with less trouble.