Re:“Positive thinking” has turned happiness into a duty and ...
by vbuwivbiu on Sunday May 05, 2019 @04:30AM
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Expressing any 'negative' emotion (frustration, anger, impatience, irritation, boredom) is seen as weak-minded and irresponsible.
We must pretend at all times that we're confident, unphasable, happy and charismatic.
Anyone feeling stressed at the end of the day will be fired.
Re:“Positive thinking” has turned happiness into a duty and ...
by Starknaked on Sunday May 05, 2019 @05:28AM
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You reminded me of this scene from The Simpsons https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zlyzkw1we_g .
The more freedom and comfort everyone felt to express themselves honestly then the less build up of emotional pressure there is to release when they do. This means people feeling more emotionally content. It's like when someone is sad and crying people think the best way to help is to cheer them up and stop them feeling sad but all they're doing is stopping them from expressing that sadness which makes it worse.
I did a therapy course which was CBT with horses and it was a real eye opener to me as I've never been around horses before. The therapist shown me the body language and behaviours of her horses and their hierarchy. The way they would get into arguments and instantly express the emotions they felt from them by stamping their hooves or through the "out breath".
That letting go of emotional energy good or bad and understanding the transient nature of emotions is very liberating.