This does not happen, nor is it remotely desirable. Having a life involves much more than having a decent job. It entails living where the person chooses to live according to their personal tastes and desires.
If you force the decision on where to live based on a single constraint that in theory is only a major part of your life so that you can fund your personal life and personal interests then this leads to poor quality of living for all (including spouces, offsprings and immediatr family) just to cater to a company's bottom line.
You're confounding your observations. People with money choose to live in areas that maximize their quality of life, and they don't mind paying a premium for that.
Quality of life matters to all, whether rich or poor. Poor people aren't masochists.