It's not a matter of intuition, it's a matter of incompleteness or inconsistence in the theory. There is no theoretrically testable explanation of what happens when states transition in quantum mechanics.

i didn't define reality, although i implied it to be everything, which was a counterpoint to the commenter's implication that quantum mechanics is reality and our intuition is somehow separate from that.

> Quantum mechanics will work the way it does regardless of what your intuition on how it should work thinks.

i didn't say otherwise, although i think what you've stated is debatable.