'Let's do gay sex' vs 'let's kill people in group X' seems like one of those apples and oranges comparisons people are always talking about.

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No, we got that one wrong. But, now we're on the path to correcting it. This is good and just and how things should work.

What's wrong and what's right? Who defines it? When? And why?