That's not quite accurate. The law allows you to legitimately ask for permission to share the data for advertising purposes, but you have to be transparent with the details, and the advertiser has to have the same safeguards on the data as your company (they aren't allowed to re-sell it without the original company's knowledge, for example).

That's not fully accurate either. All that you wrote is true, but user's permission must be freely given - this means access to the service cannot be restricted if user refuses to give permission (as long as that permission isn't strictly required to provide the service itself, but then probably permission is not the right basis for processing data).

Agreed.

I used the word prerequisite for a reason - you can ask for permission, but you can't try to force permission by withholding the service.

The question was if there is a source on the claim that most people would prefer intrusive ads to paying for a service.

Sorry, I had assumed the question was for a source on "The GDPR specifically forbids that option.", I didn't give the source, but an argument why it follows from the rules of the GDPR.

A service could offer an ad-free version for a fee.

If you provide a free service which is only accessible after you give permission to data processing, then that permission is not freely given and thus invalid (as long as such processing is not strictly necessary to provide the service) - see Article 7 and Recital 43.