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Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by munificent on Friday March 08, 2019 @01:39PM (#19340611)
When my daughter was born during the recession, my wife and I went through a stretch where money was pretty tight. One obvious expense to cut was eating out for lunch every weekday. So I switched to bringing in lunch.

For several months, I brought the same thing: granola, yogurt, and chopped melon. I love food and love variety, so I was really surprised to discover that I simply didn't get tired of it or resentful. Every day, I looked forward to having it.

Every now and then I would have a bowl of canned soup instead, but that was literally the only variety I had. Like others in the article, I found the peacefulness and simplicity of not having to stress out about where to go for lunch more than made up for the monotony. In fact, knowing all day what I was going to have for lunch led to a greater anticipation of it.

I think this worked for me because I was only doing this for lunch and not for every meal of the day. So this actually increased the meta-variety of my eating: dinner meals were varied and lunch meals were not. So I got to experience both repetition and novelty.

It was a really interesting experience that I'd encourage others to try. In general, I think repetition and ritual tends to be undervalued in Western culture, but has always been an important part of the human experience.

Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by 0-_-0 on Friday March 08, 2019 @04:57PM (#19342606)
> So this actually increased the meta-variety of my eating

Wait... did you just take the second derivative of your lunch?

Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by adrianmonk on Friday March 08, 2019 @07:13PM (#19343509)
I knew that food could lead to calculus, but I thought it was just a dental hygiene issue.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by genericone on Friday March 08, 2019 @05:00PM (#19342626)
Keep taking derivatives and you'll end up with rice krispies...
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by 98codes on Friday March 08, 2019 @05:52PM (#19342993)
Turtle soup all the way down...
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by aappleby on Saturday March 09, 2019 @03:07PM (#19348172)
I got your joke. :)
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by blattimwind on Friday March 08, 2019 @05:01PM (#19342636)
"Higher order calculus over open food spaces"
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by QuantumGood on Sunday March 10, 2019 @02:14PM (#19353310)
Wouldn't that be the third derivative, change in changes, heteroscedasticity?
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by fierro on Saturday March 09, 2019 @01:28AM (#19344813)
that's where the nutrients are
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by thrownaway954 on Friday March 08, 2019 @03:42PM (#19341962)
"I found the peacefulness and simplicity of not having to stress out about where to go for lunch"

very often in life, we mistaken boredom for peacefulness. a simple and stress-free life can be just as, if not more, rewarding then the hectic one we leave behind.

Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by ChristianGeek on Sunday March 10, 2019 @03:44AM (#19350872)
Mistaking boredom for peacefulness is like mistaking a placebo for a cure; if the net effect is what you’re going for, it doesn’t matter.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by jacobush on Sunday March 10, 2019 @02:46PM (#19353564)
Vaguely dissonant with username but I like it. :)
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by 0xbadcafebee on Friday March 08, 2019 @02:05PM (#19340977)
As an aside, I save ~$1300 a year by bringing in lunch, and ~$550 per year in breakfast, in addition to controlling portions and nutrition. If I had been doing that for the past 10 years I could buy a new car by now, or put a pretty decent chunk into retirement. I now find it absolutely bizarre how many people at work go out for lunch.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by lambda_lover on Friday March 08, 2019 @02:33PM (#19341322)
As an aside, I could save $XXXX a year by having a roommate/living in a worse house/having a crappier car/never going out for drinks/etc. The list goes on. There is an incredible number of things your average first world worker could give up to save money per year. The reason people spend money on these things is that they spend 40+ hours a week working so they CAN afford to spend those unnecessary dollars a year on things they enjoy, that enrich their lives. Otherwise we would all have plenty of money in the bank while we live in a 5x5 concrete cell and literally only go to work/sleep. Some things are not about maximizing profit.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by detaro on Friday March 08, 2019 @03:26PM (#19341842)
Sure. It's worth a consideration though if that specific thing is one that's actually something that enriches your life, or just something you're doing because it's what you've always done. (personally, the best places have been those where a group cooks their own lunch every day, but that's somewhat rare)
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by peterwwillis on Friday March 08, 2019 @04:08PM (#19342199)
I often hear my co-workers complain about their bland green smoothies or salads without enough walnuts. Meanwhile, for lunch I prepare moroccan lamb stew, chicken cordon bleu with pasta, szechuan tofu and green bean stir fry, ham and gruyere with tomato soup, pear and blue cheese salad with rotisserie chicken, loaded sweet potato with curried fried cauliflour, and quiche lorraine, among others.

I'm not saying nobody should eat out, but to do it every day just seems wasteful. And I find cooking to be quite a bit more enriching than takeout.

Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by icebraining on Friday March 08, 2019 @06:00PM (#19343064)
They spend money, you spend time. Maybe they find your expense wasteful.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by Moru on Friday March 08, 2019 @08:40PM (#19343934)
I spend time cooking for the family and then eat the leftovers for lunch. Just like a lot of swedes do. Make a dinner that works in the microwave for lunch and you are all set. No time wasted on going to the restaurant and waiting for food. More time to talk over the lunchtable in peace. Maybe even switching lunch with a coworker.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by dragonsngoblins on Sunday March 10, 2019 @07:08PM (#19355335)
See I eat lunch out so I can use those leftovers for dinner the next day. Gives me and my girlfriend more time to spend together or on our hobbies if we only have to cook every other night.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by opportune on Friday March 08, 2019 @04:35PM (#19342426)
This is what I do. I can cheap food every day for lunch for about $6 and longingly look at, but not purchase, nice food (like salmon) for $10-12. Or I can cook and bring my own nice food for $2-6. It's kind of a no-brainer.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by adrianN on Saturday March 09, 2019 @12:37AM (#19344681)
In my experience, there is a good chunk of people who have to eat out every day because they have no time for cooking, because they work 40h/week and have a one hour commute (, to pay for the lunches and the car).
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by ska on Friday March 08, 2019 @02:52PM (#19341539)
I wondered the same thing (how do so many people buy lunch daily) but concluded - at the time and the context I was observing it - that there were two main factors.

Number 1 was social. People went out for lunch in groups, and it was an "enforced" break in the day. It's a cultural issue that can be hard to replicate for "lunch bringers" in some places. Not so fun to eat alone in a drab lunch room if your friends and peers are down the street having pizza, I guess.

Number 2 was time, or at least the perception of time. Tech people (in my context) tend to work long hours and whether you are trying to maintain a social life or bring up a couple of kids, once you add that to work hours there isn't a ton left. More than one person I know had commented that they didn't find the time to make and bring lunches that didn't leave them feeling left out. It's easy to bring a crappy sandwich, harder to bring something you really enjoy. At least for them.

Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by viraptor on Friday March 08, 2019 @04:00PM (#19342125)
> Number 1 was social.

This is what I liked while working in HP. We had a canteen where pretty much everybody went. You could buy a number of simple cheaper meals, a fancy expensive meal, or bring your own thing. Everybody could still sit together.

Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by ska on Friday March 08, 2019 @06:05PM (#19343106)
Yes, I think there is a different dynamic when your company scale runs to "I work on campus". In smaller offices, particularly in dense cities or "business parks", I think it's more common to go to the restaurants nearby. Those are really not open to people bringing food.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by neilv on Friday March 08, 2019 @04:34PM (#19342417)
Both of these match my experience. When I was living off the wages of a young intern, I was working or learning almost every waking hour, and sleeping on a sheet on the floor because I didn't own furniture. But, whenever he group would go out to lunch, I'd go, for the socialization -- it was very consciously the only thing other than rent&utilities that I spent money on. (Fortunately, we had some amazing strip mall restaurants nearby that weren't too expensive.) When the group didn't go to lunch, I'd usually get by with whatever food I could scavenge, because I was so busy, and felt like I had to always be in the office. I hadn't yet even tried to figure out how to make and bring a lunch.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by moorhosj on Friday March 08, 2019 @05:45PM (#19342951)
Number 3 might be exercise. If you live in a cold weather city, you can't eat outside all year (i.e. bringing lunch and walk to a park and eating). Walking to and from lunch might be 3,000 steps.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by astura on Friday March 08, 2019 @04:32PM (#19342399)
Absolutely no shame at all in ordering takeout for lunch every single day as long as you can afford it and it brings you joy. The goal of personal finance isn't to die with the highest score, its to organize your money to make you the most secure and the most happy, both now and in the future.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by standerman on Friday March 08, 2019 @03:36PM (#19341917)
It's really good for the economy to go out for lunch. You create a lot of jobs by doing that. If you're mindful of where you eat you can also support immigrant and minority owned businesses.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by netrus on Friday March 08, 2019 @04:01PM (#19342132)
It's good for the LOCAL economy. Eating expensive lunch in a restaurant will increase local spending, but reduce your other consumption by the same amount. You create jobs by letting people work for you, and you get means to make them do it by working yourself. Nothing special about going out for lunch in that regard.

And if everyone chooses to eat cheap lunch, we could all just work less, and the system would be balanced again ;).

Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by ulfw on Saturday March 09, 2019 @06:27AM (#19345652)
Maybe there is more to life than buying a new car every ten years? Maybe some people enjoy variety and a nice proper good sit down meal? I am really NOT questioning your choices. Totally cool if it works for you. But please don't call people who live a different life style "absolutely bizarre"
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by maccard on Friday March 08, 2019 @02:27PM (#19341248)
I used to do this and I did grow resentful of it, after about 6 months. I've switched to having the same thing for a week and cycling between 4 options. It's hit that sweet spot of variety and familiarity for me.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by pradn on Friday March 08, 2019 @02:35PM (#19341344)
Meta-variety is a novel concept. Perhaps we should look out for that more in our lives.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by MrMoenty on Friday March 08, 2019 @04:51PM (#19342558)
I believe the statisticians would call this heteroscedasticity. But meta-variety certainly easier to remember ;)
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by perilunar on Saturday March 09, 2019 @12:22AM (#19344645)
That's weird. Never heard the word heteroscedasticity before and now I see it in two different HN threads within the hour. (the other being https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=19337466).
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by aggerdom on Sunday March 10, 2019 @01:55AM (#19350757)
See further the Baader-Meinhof Effect. [1]

[1] https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baader%E2%80%93Meinhof_effec...

Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by perilunar on Sunday March 10, 2019 @04:27AM (#19350987)
I thought that too, initially, but consider: https://hn.algolia.com/?query=heteroscedasticity&sort=byDate...

3 mentions in the same day out of a total of 8 mentions ever on HN (not including the 2 meta-comments). User dcomp noticed it also.

(oops, just bumped those numbers up one)

Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by gugagore on Friday March 08, 2019 @05:41PM (#19342927)
Meta-variety is like the variance of variances.

Heteroscedasticity is like changing variance.

Nice! I hadn't thought about that.

Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by abakker on Friday March 08, 2019 @11:06PM (#19344379)
Right, so this is like having autocorrelation, right? Or at least having a confounding variable correlated to your error term?
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by gugagore on Saturday March 09, 2019 @10:37AM (#19346628)
Sorry, I'm not sure what you mean. But I think the answer is no.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by featherrust on Friday March 08, 2019 @05:53PM (#19343011)
Perhaps it shares a root with serendipity?

Both seem related to a kind of intelligent mindfulness.

Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by jjtheblunt on Friday March 08, 2019 @02:02PM (#19340934)
I'm so glad as I read what you wrote. I also long have hated the tedium of choosing where to go, actually going, not squandering finite time fucking around with ordering when coworkers want to chat up the alternatives, when I'm lucky enough, or persistent enough, to have a job I like which I'd prefer to be doing.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by rconti on Friday March 08, 2019 @02:36PM (#19341370)
I quit eating out for lunch because I got tired of spending 20 minutes hungry, trying to decide where to go, then half the time paying money for food I didn't really want to eat in the first place.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by mixmastamyk on Friday March 08, 2019 @06:24PM (#19343249)
You might like soylent.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by justsomeguy3591 on Friday March 08, 2019 @03:17PM (#19341764)
There is definitely something to this. I've been having a breakfast smoothie/shake every morning for about 4 years now- while the recipe changes a little every once in a while, I absolutely love the predictability of the macros, calories, and satiety I get from it. Perfect start to the day for me.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by swah on Friday March 08, 2019 @02:01PM (#19340917)
I've had that thought about a simple brazilian meal as well: I don't get tired of rice, beans and a steak.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by kinow on Friday March 08, 2019 @02:14PM (#19341085)
Ditto here. Been overseas for a while, but foun a rice and beans that taste like ours, plus steak/chicken/mistura.

I wish I could have pingado (espresso with milk) and pão francês na chapa (a grilled bread with margarine or cream cheese). Dinner would be the left overs of lunch, of just some salad, bread, turkey... never get tired of it.

Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by clairity on Friday March 08, 2019 @04:26PM (#19342339)
the worst part of my experience in costa rica was eating the same meal of rice, beans, plantains, salad, and a mild and sometimes dry protein, none of which i dislike on occasion.

eating the same meal twice in a row makes me not want it again for weeks. there are also very few foods that i won't eat, so maybe that's correlated with the love of variety.

(variety in) food is such a simple pleasure for me that i guess i will never understand this behavior.

Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by YinglingLight on Friday March 08, 2019 @01:53PM (#19340821)
Repetition is the only thing that creates change.

No one on r/fitness or /fit/ is going to call you crazy for eating the same thing each day.

Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by oids98d98s on Friday March 08, 2019 @01:58PM (#19340880)
I have a ton of variety in my diet.

But when you're a vegetarian (as I was), to maintain a reasonably nutritious diet requires some repetition. For example, getting certain protein and nutrients in one meal so you don't have to think about it in the others.

I'm no longer a strict vegetarian (just mostly), but the diet habits I learned mean that my overall diet is better, lower calorie.

I now think it's important for EVERYONE to do strict vegetarianism. Not for ethical or environmental concerns, but simply because it forces you to think about what you're eating and to read labels (and thus learn that the "vegetarian" tacos you're eating have gelatin (meat product) in the sour cream).

In addition, being a strict vegetarian in a sustainable way requires learning about what your body requires.

After a few months (or however long it requires to build a stable, nutritious diet), you'll be extremely well informed. Of course, you could also just read all this stuff on various articles, but trial by fire is an excellent way to learn.

Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by akgerber on Friday March 08, 2019 @04:50PM (#19342553)
I'm vegetarian and have been since I was 12. There isn't all that much repetition in my diet. I don't eat that much 'American' food, though, because 'American' vegetarian options can be pretty limited. I just eat a ton of Indian and Mexican and Thai and Chinese and Mediterranean and other foods.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by YinglingLight on Monday March 11, 2019 @07:31AM (#19358131)
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by jacobush on Friday March 08, 2019 @03:33PM (#19341890)
I felt kind of dizzy at first - your daughter... the 1930s?! Then I realised which recession you meant.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by shagmin on Friday March 08, 2019 @04:21PM (#19342307)
Not which recession - you're mixing up recession and depression.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by jacobush on Friday March 08, 2019 @04:28PM (#19342357)
I'm all kinds of mixed up.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by wil421 on Friday March 08, 2019 @02:49PM (#19341517)
Figuring out where to eat lunch causes you stress? Much easier than figuring out where your pregnant wife wants to eat. Now that is stressful!

Glad you were able to stick to bringing lunch. I always end up being too lazy and enjoy the break from the office or home office. If I don’t have variety I will become pretty cranky.

Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by munificent on Friday March 08, 2019 @03:16PM (#19341751)
> Figuring out where to eat lunch causes you stress?

Reaching consensus on where to eat with my group of lunchmates definitely caused stress, especially after we'd all gotten mostly burned out on the nearby options.

Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by amelius on Friday March 08, 2019 @06:39PM (#19343322)
I recently read that autistic people often eat without much variety. I wonder if that also holds for people with mildly autistic traits.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by nzjrs on Friday March 08, 2019 @05:13PM (#19342722)
> One obvious expense to cut > was eating out for lunch > every weekday

Honestly amazed this is the default position for anyone. What situation of living prompts this?

Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by stevenwoo on Friday March 08, 2019 @05:24PM (#19342795)
If you work with a bunch of people who commute a long way into work and do not cook and you want to fit in with your coworkers. Generally I would bring something in but be available for lunch because it's nice if you like your coworkers to hang out outside of work sometimes. This goes against my instincts for frugality. This was long before company provided lunches and the like, though, I've worked at places back then that were large enough to have on site cafeterias and we still went out most of the time. Also might be an age thing because we were all in our 20's and the veterans at those companies almost universally brought in their lunch.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by telchar on Friday March 08, 2019 @05:53PM (#19343008)
Cooking quickly becomes a bad time/value proposition when you're cooking for one, so that's part of the equation. And some of us value the enjoyment of many good meals over say, having a newer car. I planned to include daily lunches in my budget before I even left college (couldn't afford it at the time). I don't regret it one bit.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by fian on Friday March 08, 2019 @09:20PM (#19344057)
I used to cycle commute everyday and would vary the route from 12-60kms. Where I live is very hot in summer and wet in winter. So a shower was needed when I arrived at work. I preferred to not carry a backpack or have a pannier on my bike, so every fortnight I would drive to work and drop off work clothes for the next couple of weeks.

This also meant I would go out for lunch each day as I didn't want to carry food with me on my commute. The cost savings of riding to work vs driving and paying for parking meant I was ahead. If I took public transport and brought lunch from home it would have worked out slightly cheaper but taken 30mins longer each way.

Sure I could have carried lunch with me on my cycle commute but and saved more money, but then I would have enjoyed the ride less. I figure I would still be ahead compared to people who don't cycle and pay for gym classes/memberships.

Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by manigandham on Friday March 08, 2019 @07:30PM (#19343603)
Food available at the office or paid enough to be able to do so. Very common in the major SV companies.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by mattkrause on Friday March 08, 2019 @05:21PM (#19342774)
When I was in grad school, there was a huge collection of food carts right outside the building. You could get a large meal of virtually any cuisine for $5-6.

As a single person who liked variety and worked a lot, it was a slam dunk: fast, tasty, and relatively cheap.

Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by jrgoj on Friday March 08, 2019 @05:25PM (#19342808)
Many large companies have a cafeteria on site.
Re:People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day by usefulcat on Friday March 08, 2019 @10:03PM (#19344182)
Nearly 9 years ago I started a job where (tldr) it wasn't practical to go out for lunch most if the time. Since then I've eaten sandwiches for lunch nearly every day at lunch. With some variations, but not a lot recently. Down sides: I do sometimes miss the chance to get out of the office for a bit. Upsides: have saved a bunch of money and lost about 30 pounds of weight without really even trying. Also I only need about 20 minutes for lunch each day (+shopping once a week, which doesn't take long since I mostly eat the same thing).