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Re:The New 30-Something by kokokokoko on Monday March 04, 2019 @12:00PM (#19302740)
I can't believe this would be a shock to anyone. How else does a first time home buyer come up with a 20% deposit on a $500,000 house? There are obviously exceptions, but generally speaking that's where the money comes from.

Money from inheritance and family grossly distorts the market. Anyone who takes money from family or inheritance should be ashamed of themselves unless that money is used for helping the less fortunate.

Edit: I should add that I had access to family assistance financially and chose to not take it. Which made my life significantly more difficult. So this is something I feel very passionately about. Those who take the money know it is wrong, because most of them will never admit publicly they took any money.

Re:The New 30-Something by hugey010 on Monday March 04, 2019 @12:25PM (#19303012)
1. Not everyone should live in a $500,000 house, and those that do aren't always paying a 20% deposit.

2. Taking money from parents or inheritance and purchasing things is exactly what helps stimulate economies which can help less fortunate people. Not taking advantage of these benefits increases your risk of becoming less fortunate yourself! Sitting on gobs of money and living on capital gains almost never helps the less fortunate.

3. You didn't need all of your mother's breast milk, or technically any, so she should have donated it instead of fed only yourself. You could have gone without shoes your whole life but you were too snobby to go barefoot. My points don't make any sense and neither does yours.

4. I'll happily admit any time my family has helped me with a month of rent, or a big purchase, or just dinner. I've helped them throughout my whole life just like they've helped me and we all plan to continue doing so.

Re:The New 30-Something by okmokmz on Monday March 04, 2019 @02:11PM (#19304250)
>Anyone who takes money from family or inheritance should be ashamed of themselves unless that money is used for helping the less fortunate.

This is absurd

>I should add that I had access to family assistance financially and chose to not take it

Congratulations

>Those who take the money know it is wrong, because most of them will never admit publicly they took any money.

My parents assisted me financially to get through college, and I in no way feel that it was "wrong". We are not wealthy. Both my parents were in the Airforce until my mom retired to be a stay at home mom so my father was the sole earner. They began investing small amounts, which they could barely afford at the time, before I was born with the goal of helping me pay for college, and they were able to do so. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that

Re:The New 30-Something by manigandham on Monday March 04, 2019 @12:04PM (#19302769)
Children should be ashamed to use their family's money to better their life? That's a rather extreme statement.
Re:The New 30-Something by kokokokoko on Monday March 04, 2019 @12:04PM (#19302779)
Yes, absolutely. It is wildly unfair to those who do not have access in a market economy.
Re:The New 30-Something by MagicPropmaker on Monday March 04, 2019 @12:08PM (#19302818)
The compromise is to make sure this transfer of income is taxed like any other income.
Re:The New 30-Something by manigandham on Monday March 04, 2019 @02:21PM (#19304358)
Unfair does not mean you should be ashamed. Life isn't and never will be fair anyway.
Re:The New 30-Something by okmokmz on Monday March 04, 2019 @02:14PM (#19304280)
Life isn't fair. Should we also all stop drinking potable water because it is unfair to those who do not have access?
Re:The New 30-Something by g_z_m on Monday March 04, 2019 @12:13PM (#19302877)
I'm just curious since I'd be on the total opposite side of this argument. What makes you so vehemently against family helping their sons/daughters along the way? I come from a culture where this is fairly standard practice in families. What is so evil or disgusting about it?
Re:The New 30-Something by kokokokoko on Monday March 04, 2019 @12:16PM (#19302900)
Because in the US we have a market economy. Taking family assistance when others do not have it, distorts the market and also distorts the very concept of merit based rewards. Which is the fundamental device of the economic system in the US. I cannot speak for other economic systems.
Re:The New 30-Something by SketchySeaBeast on Monday March 04, 2019 @12:23PM (#19302998)
How about all the non immediately monetary advantages? Neighbourhoods, schools, contacts, free time, travel, emotional support. All affect your market value as well. Did you feel safe while growing up? Did you live at home during college? That's not fair either and will have an effect on your earning. There's a ton of variables there, and you're trying to draw a hard line on a very fuzzy subject.
Re:The New 30-Something by kokokokoko on Monday March 04, 2019 @12:46PM (#19303281)
Because it's an easy line to draw. Don't take the money. Problem solved. The other things you listed do not have such a simple solution.
Re:The New 30-Something by SketchySeaBeast on Monday March 04, 2019 @12:51PM (#19303361)
So if my much-suffering parents leave me some money upon their deaths I shouldn't take it, and that in some way makes me equal to the kid who went to the ivy league school and had a job with a major firm due to father's contacts but took no money? Problem clearly not solved. I can see zero reasons, moral or otherwise, to not take my parents money.
Re:The New 30-Something by manigandham on Monday March 04, 2019 @02:49PM (#19304641)
A family can benefit from it's collective merit by having a parent take care of a child.

You not taking your family's money only hurt you and did absolutely nothing for anyone else. It didn't make anything more "fair".

Re:The New 30-Something by fallingfrog on Monday March 04, 2019 @12:29PM (#19303071)
I feel like you don't have a really clear understanding of how our economic system works. If you want equality, capitalism is not exactly the best way to get it.
Re:The New 30-Something by screye on Monday March 04, 2019 @01:16PM (#19303662)
Maybe it is the US system that needs fixing, and not the culture.

Higher capital gains tax, gift tax and social welfare for things that loans are being taken out for (education, medical emergencies) might help.

Re:The New 30-Something by notanum on Monday March 04, 2019 @02:43PM (#19304573)
Buffett has written several times of his belief that, in a market economy, the rich earn outsized rewards for their talents.[135] His children will not inherit a significant proportion of his wealth. He once commented, "I want to give my kids just enough so that they would feel that they could do anything, but not so much that they would feel like doing nothing".[136]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Warren_Buffett

Re:The New 30-Something by refurb on Monday March 04, 2019 @04:12PM (#19305569)
Yeah, but that amount is still ridiculous I assume.

The rumor is that Bill Gates will leave his kids a small amount of his fortune - $10M each.

Re:The New 30-Something by screye on Monday March 04, 2019 @01:14PM (#19303647)
Quick question, will you be taking inheritance when your parents inevitably die ?

If yes, what's wrong with taking some of this 'inheritance' early, when you need it, rather than at 60 when you are practically retired.

If not, will you be donating it ? Don't you think having that extra money today will allow you to grow your assets enough, to be able to donate more when the times come for it ?

That money isn't just going to vanish....