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Re:Ask HN: What's it like to work in the same company for de... by toomuchtodo on Tuesday February 12, 2019 @10:08PM (#19150016)
I find meaning in having enough resources that my partner and kids are happy, regardless of the challenge or enjoyment of the work I do.

It would be selfish (and borderline irresponsible) for me to prioritize excitement and self-actualization at work over a comfortable, stable life for my family. That’s what holidays and hobbies are for.

Re:Ask HN: What's it like to work in the same company for de... by farresito on Tuesday February 12, 2019 @10:14PM (#19150049)
I think it's fine to have a bit of selfishness in your life. I'm not saying that you need to make very irresponsible decisions, but if all your decisions are made based on what others need, you end up living for others.