>For my mother, privacy is not just a personal boundary or a practical concern but an instinct, and something like an ethos: She has a deep revulsion to the idea of something private circulating in public context. She dislikes having her picture taken and hates having it shared; it removes her right to represent herself.

>As I circled my parents’ house with my phone, I claimed to be acting in good faith…But…I was trailing the threat of an unknown audience through her space.