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Re:Joy of Being a Woman in Her 70s by Volundr on Monday January 14, 2019 @05:00PM (#18906936)
Would they though? I'm sure everyone has met someone at some point who has come on far too strong (or observed it) and it can be quite a turnoff. That "high intensity" mutant could have a very hard time finding partners.
Re:Joy of Being a Woman in Her 70s by code_duck on Monday January 14, 2019 @05:39PM (#18907221)
Right, if everyone is relaxed, it’s not clear that someone who is high intensity has an advantage in personal interaction.
Re:Joy of Being a Woman in Her 70s by cco on Monday January 14, 2019 @05:52PM (#18907333)
It depends on how you define "relaxed", if you mean low CNS arousal as a base state but can easily move into a highly aroused state when needed then maybe.

But if you mean low CNS arousal generally then I completely disagree, someone that pushes to 100% will out compete you if you never breach 50% assuming equal ability. If you and I both have the same capacity for strength but you are an intense person and I am not you will be the stronger one in the short and long term. Same goes for the intelligence question as well.

However modern society short circuits part this general behavior though and all bets are off though I still think it holds true. It is often not the best political or business idea that wins, it is the one someone is willing to push through. Human relationships are similar, an activation energy must be reached in order for mating to happen and someone with a higher intensity is more likely to reach that activation energy more often.

Re:Joy of Being a Woman in Her 70s by code_duck on Monday January 14, 2019 @06:29PM (#18907570)
I don’t understand - do you mean basic alertness or persistence?

I think the concept was that someone overly driven might overshoot the ‘activation energy’. However, this conversation has grown insane in the mixture of vagueness and specificity.