comparing yourself to others is usually a good way to end up disappointed with as interconnected as the world has become. Compare yourself to your previous self. Are you getting better by what you measure success as? Don't worry about tailored messages famous people write. Are you better now that you were last year? The year before? Maybe you are better in some ways and not in others. Celebrate small successes. Also, get vitamin D and do some exercise. Socialize with people in the real world.