Re:The Best Programming Advice I Ever Got (2012)
by darkerside on Saturday December 15, 2018 @04:58PM
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I've fallen in the same trap. And you're right, you can't fight every battle. But I think the best approach is not to make it a battle in the first place. Sometimes bringing things up in the right way and with the right energy helps people be more receptive to your advice.
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Re:The Best Programming Advice I Ever Got (2012)
by jeklj on Sunday December 16, 2018 @03:51PM
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I don’t want to fight battles, at all. At least not in my working life but really not anywhere else either.
I’ve seen a lot and done a lot in my career, and I don’t feel I have anything to prove to anyone anymore. On the other hand I do find it enjoyable to discuss ideas in a collegial environment where people really are trying to figure out what’s best.
If we can agree on ideas as equals and proceed then great. If not, I’ll live. If someone gets mad because I had an idea to improve something I’m not going to get too twisted up about it. Life is too short for all this stuff, and it isn’t important in the scheme of things.