Re:I woke up unable to speak English
by excalibur on Friday October 19, 2018 @12:55PM
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Not questioning the husband's devotion to his wife, but it seems a bit odd to me that he would take an 18 month sabbatical and focus on re-teaching her a language that keeps slipping out of her mind due to brain injury. You would think that teaching himself German would be the low-hanging fruit.
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Re:I woke up unable to speak English
by bostonpete on Friday October 19, 2018 @01:09PM
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The article doesn't say he took a sabbatical to re-teach her English -- it says he took the sabbatical to support her. It also doesn't say he didn't work on improving his German during that time.
I worked from home for 12 weeks to help my wife recover from a surgery. She initially needed help moving around the house, for her safety, and slept most of the day.
Brain injuries are EXTREMELY difficult and time consuming to recover from, far more so than more typical injuries. The woman in the article was almost certainly going through a massive adjustment and needed tons of help. It's not a simple matter of a bump on the leg and shoulder, and whoops, she's living in a country where she doesn't know the language, as if she was a tourist.
I take ~3 weeks off to help my wife post-baby for the same reasons.
Presumably she still needs to interact with other English-speaking people.
Re:I woke up unable to speak English
by i_cant_speel on Friday October 19, 2018 @01:12PM
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Right. I think this is the real reason for teaching her English.
Also the psychological trauma of no longer being able to speak a language you technically know.
I imagine there could also be some hope that through "exercise", the brain and nervous system could try to rebuild its former capacity. Physiotherapy for the brain. I imagine that would be a good thing for her health in general. I've read a lot of articles over the years about the possibility, but never read anything conclusive. So it's just hearsay, but I can imagine hanging onto this kind of hope if I were in his shoes. It wouldn't be about communicating with her, it would be about helping her heal and preventing anything from getting worse.
What? It's far more practical to reteach his wife the language she lost, which also happens to be his first language AND the primary language of the country they live it.
Re:I woke up unable to speak English
by thaumasiotes on Friday October 19, 2018 @02:33PM
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If she can't retain it, then teaching it to her is not practical, regardless of how useful it would be if she hypothetically learned it.
A lesson the American school system could stand to learn too. :/
Re:I woke up unable to speak English
by jamesgeck0 on Friday October 19, 2018 @06:49PM
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That's not the situation. She did improve significantly, although not to complete recovery.
Re:I woke up unable to speak English
by macspoofing on Friday October 19, 2018 @02:58PM
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>Not questioning the husband's devotion to his wife
But baseless assumptions are ok?