Marriage Costs in China Are Out of Control

Re:Marriage Costs in China Are Out of Control by yostrovs on Sunday September 30, 2018 @08:41AM (#18105926)

Attending weddings must be a frequent activity if you get invited when anyone within 3 or more degrees of separation is getting married. Really, how often does an average Indian attend weddings? Are expensive gifts expected?

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Re:Marriage Costs in China Are Out of Control by murukesh_s on Sunday September 30, 2018 @09:17AM (#18106056)

Yes it is. Also for Hindus it's based on seasons(Auspicious months). During season period there could be 4-5 or more marriages a month, sometimes 2-3 happening on the same day.

For distant relatives no gift is expected, but people do give cash(1000rs avg). For close relatives it's mostly gold. You are supposed to return equal or more than you received for your sons/daughters marriage. It can average 8gms of 22k gold (cost upto 30000rs) which is not a small amount.

Also all of these varies between states, religions and caste. For e.g no one expects dowry in West Bengal while in neighbouring state you are expected to give hefty dowries.

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Re:Marriage Costs in China Are Out of Control by forkLding on Sunday September 30, 2018 @10:56AM (#18106418)

Chinese choose auspicious monthes and days too although nowadays I don't think people care as much but I think some still do who want to have a bit of tradition.

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Re:Marriage Costs in China Are Out of Control by matz1 on Sunday September 30, 2018 @10:59AM (#18106429)

I'm not indian but before moving to usa, attending wedding is one of the common weekend activities.

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