It's also, in this context, a personal attack. If you do personal attack on HN again we will ban you.
Either the argument is, "Gender isn't real, all cultural norms stem directly from biology." Obviously and trivially false. Or the argument is, "Gender should be destroyed as it holds people back," which is just a semantics game to penalize some LGBT+ people choosing taxonomies to describe their experience that other people don't like the visibility of."
It's a tad more complicated than that, even at the biological level. Your sex is determined by your chromosomes, but for example, you can be born with chromosomes XXY. Which biological sex is XXY? Admittedly, this is an extremely rare occurrence. I guess you could argue that "presence of Y = male, absence of Y = female" to make it unambiguous.
Forget the word "gender". There is only sex (male and female, no more) and nothing more.