And honestly, Coal Mining is a job with like social status zero and sex work status -1. My dad actually was a coal miner and it wasn't great. Even if you mindlessly take it literally it's not that far off.
Yes, it is. Most often, IME, with a derogatory label indicating lack of intelligence alongside it, but even by itself it is.
I live in 'The West' and I refute this claim, regardless of how it was used in this specific context.
You don't get that reaction if its not a pejorative.
> Those who consider themselves “a bullshit free zone,” eg: masculine men will “ball bust” (read: shit test your ass a new one) quite relentlessly to determine “just how much of a man you are.” If you are an effeminate or timid man, you will feel bullied rather than challenged and this tells the group everything they need to know about you.
https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclop...