Re:In Brazil, it is considered rude to be on time to a party
by CalRobert on Tuesday July 31, 2018 @03:50AM
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I think early bird is best reserved for close friends of the host. I invite close friends, somewhat-close friends, and maybe tangential friends (that neighbor who seems nice but I don't really know well) to parties, and if it's the last group who shows up first conversation flows less smoothly.
Also if you're first, be ready to help set up!
Re:In Brazil, it is considered rude to be on time to a party
by afterburner on Tuesday July 31, 2018 @03:46AM
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Are you thinking only of parties with friends? Arriving early can be an awkward and intense social situation; it's just you and the hosts.
Re:In Brazil, it is considered rude to be on time to a party
by thirdsun on Tuesday July 31, 2018 @09:58AM
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Provided I know the host well I consider those early arrival situations much easier to handle than arriving late when the gathering is already in full swing. I know it's absurd, but it almost feels like interrupting.
I prefer too ease into these events by starting early and with a small group instead of making an entrance to a full room.
Re:In Brazil, it is considered rude to be on time to a party
by squarefoot on Tuesday July 31, 2018 @03:49AM
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"Why don't you want to be the first person?"
In some cultures appearing a busy person can be important. Showing early to a party could send the message you had nothing to do before. Not that i like or do that, but some people could pay attention to such details.
Re:In Brazil, it is considered rude to be on time to a party
by ajuc on Tuesday July 31, 2018 @05:52AM
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It has nothing to do with looking busy. It's simply awkward when you go to a party and you're the only guest present and you don't know the hosts very well.
Re:In Brazil, it is considered rude to be on time to a party
by BrandonM on Tuesday July 31, 2018 @06:26AM
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Even more so if the hosts are still frantically finishing preparations. As an acquaintance, do you offer help? Go for a walk around the block? Best to just avoid that altogether by showing up a little “late”.
I've heard of "fashionably late", never anything about "early".
IME early bird gets all the good nachos. And you can leave earlier.