What does "detecting a windows server attack from 2013" have to do with ANYTHING? The primary purpose of the OPNSense and PFSense projects is to be a better home router replacement. Now PFSense has "moved up" if you will into the SMB space, and has further ambitions in the routing space, but the basics still come down to that goal.
Suricata and Snort aren't even installed by default, much less required. So why do you keep harping on that functionality? It's irrelevant. These are ROUTERS that can be extended to do IPS if you so choose, but is in no way required.
OPNSense describes itself as a firewall. A firewall is generally something you deploy along with a router. Does the term "firewall" just mean something else among the community of people repurposing old Dell towers to build complicated home networks?
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Some vendors have moved towards calling their SPI functionality the "firewall" portion, but that debate is about a decade too late.
I'm not sure you need to do the netgate device unless you want support, you can use literally any x86-64 box you have lying around. Another good option if you're looking for an "all encompassing" solution would be ubiquiti. If you went that route you'd likely want to dump the airport extreme though and just go all-in on ubiquiti.
> A firewall is generally something you deploy along with a router. Does the term "firewall" just mean something else among the community of people repurposing old Dell towers to build complicated home networks?
That's an unfair characterization IMHO. In the commercial market, there are tons of "firewall appliances" that are used as router/firewall combinations: Sophos UTM, Watchguard boxes, Fortigate, ...
pfSense and OPNsense play in roughly the same space: a box you plug your WAN interface in that will do (primarily static) routing, firewalling with multiple zones, act as a VPN server. And typically have some amount of security checkboxes a la IDS, WAF, ..., although the commercial ones with the opertunity to sell subscriptions emphasize this more.
Also, the word ROUTER doesn't even appear on the linked page.