Ask HN: What has the past 12 months taught you?

Re:Ask HN: What has the past 12 months taught you? by shankr on Friday June 15, 2018 @04:51AM (#17318395)

I need a relationship and it doesn't come easy when you are brown gay living in a white country.

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Re:Ask HN: What has the past 12 months taught you? by Mane on Friday June 15, 2018 @05:06AM (#17318442)

Why do you "need" a relationship?

Generally, I'd advice on being so comfortable with yourself that you don't ever feel like you "need" a relationship.

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Re:Ask HN: What has the past 12 months taught you? by shankr on Friday June 15, 2018 @09:28AM (#17319590)

I have been single for about 5 years now. Earlier, I was moving around more looking for better career. Now, I am more stable with a good job. I wanted to say, I want to be in one. Obviously, I don't "need" one just for the sake of having one.

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Re:Ask HN: What has the past 12 months taught you? by bynkman on Friday June 15, 2018 @02:45PM (#17322389)

I hear you brother. I haven't cracked this one yet either. I've given up a bit, but I should know better... Nothing is going to change unless I keep putting myself out there.

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Re:Ask HN: What has the past 12 months taught you? by drew72 on Friday June 15, 2018 @11:03AM (#17320232)

I feel you and I wish it were easier for my fellow gays who are POC. I hope you get to live in a city, at least.

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