I always read many more books when I commuted than when I didn’t commute. I find myself making new year’s resolutions to read more. But it was easy when I had the commute as a forcing function. (Not having internet on the subway probably helped...)
(I audiobook when running so I’m no better)
Admittedly this doesn't say great things about my attention span...
If it takes an extra hour a day and $500 a month that's $3000 to save a month in housing costs
I live across the street from the office and yes the rent is stupid, but my commute is a 5 minute walk.
And rent is still stupid in a 30min radius (for a total of 1h/day). You really have to go 1h+ radius to make a significant dent in rent around here (SF).
I have a 5 second commute from the bedroom to the office (3 minutes if I go downstairs and boil the kettle first), far easier. Monthly Mortgage is less than the weekly rent that one colleague pays in London, and he still has a 45 minute commute each way.
The only real thing to gain in this case is convenience.
How much is 2x5x52 = 520 hours worth to you?
If you’re selling your time for even just $100/hour that’s $52,000/year right there. With a 300k salary your hour is worth way more than $100. For your family, it’s priceless.