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Re:Ask HN: How to deal with a dysfunctional relationship wit... by quickben on Monday May 07, 2018 @08:02PM (#17017574)
I considered that before I replied, but then it has to be contrasted with the fact that the guy claims to be suffering for a year.

Since people end relationships in much less time if things aren't going well, I was instinctively expecting the op to care more.

Re:Ask HN: How to deal with a dysfunctional relationship wit... by staticautomatic on Monday May 07, 2018 @09:12PM (#17018006)
Whether or not people end relationships "in much less time if things aren't going well" is an empirical question and I don't think it's necessarily true. Anecdotally, lots of people seem to "stick it out" in various kinds of personal and business relationships for much longer than a year even when things are terrible.