Re:Ask HN: How to deal with a dysfunctional relationship wit...
by throwaway9934_r on Monday May 07, 2018 @07:53PM
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Dude it's only been 2 hours since he posted.
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Re:Ask HN: How to deal with a dysfunctional relationship wit...
by revel on Monday May 07, 2018 @08:00PM
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Are you sticking up for yourself by pretending to be a different poster?
*Edit: reworded this
Re:Ask HN: How to deal with a dysfunctional relationship wit...
by throwaway9934 on Tuesday May 08, 2018 @06:01AM
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100% that wasn't me. I'm at the office now and will engage with everyone as soon as I get back.
Re:Ask HN: How to deal with a dysfunctional relationship wit...
by gitgud on Monday May 07, 2018 @08:44PM
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The usernames seem stupidly similar, this is becoming an interesting roller coaster of a story!
Re:Ask HN: How to deal with a dysfunctional relationship wit...
by rojobuffalo on Monday May 07, 2018 @08:45PM
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Weird that the username is green even though it doesn't exactly match OP's.
Re:Ask HN: How to deal with a dysfunctional relationship wit...
by staz on Tuesday May 08, 2018 @09:58AM
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green just mean newly created account
I also find that colorscheme plainly confusing, maybe a tooltip or something to explain the color will help?
Re:Ask HN: How to deal with a dysfunctional relationship wit...
by rojobuffalo on Tuesday May 08, 2018 @12:23PM
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Oh thanks for the correction. I thought green meant OP
Re:Ask HN: How to deal with a dysfunctional relationship wit...
by quickben on Monday May 07, 2018 @08:02PM
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I considered that before I replied, but then it has to be contrasted with the fact that the guy claims to be suffering for a year.
Since people end relationships in much less time if things aren't going well, I was instinctively expecting the op to care more.
Re:Ask HN: How to deal with a dysfunctional relationship wit...
by staticautomatic on Monday May 07, 2018 @09:12PM
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Whether or not people end relationships "in much less time if things aren't going well" is an empirical question and I don't think it's necessarily true. Anecdotally, lots of people seem to "stick it out" in various kinds of personal and business relationships for much longer than a year even when things are terrible.