My system is two or three "disposable" passwords I use on low reputation sites or sites where I don't care about breaches. I don't care about people knowing it either, if someone asks and I trust them I'll more often than not tell them what it is. Services where compromise would actually affect me get stronger passwords: my Google and Amazon passwords semi-random generated, but sticks to a format so I change parts of it and never forget it, and I check to make sure it's not in breaches every now and again. I use variations of it for my bank, medical stuff, etc where a breach could actually have implications for me.
The usual cargo-cult thinking usually ends up with someone leaving their 1024 bit secret key under the doormat, or worrying too much about nation states hacking your routers instead of worrying about Bob clicking a suspicious link.
I don't know about you but I don't like having to remember passwords. But people here can feel free to impress everyone with their memorized password they use on pizzahut.com, right up until they find out that they reused it somewhere important they totally forgot about because they don't have a convenient database of all the websites they have an account on.
Seriously, this counter-culture of being proud to have shitty passwords is the same mindset that makes antivax and climate science deniers a thing. You want to reuse shitty passwords, nobody is stopping you (I've certainly done it), but don't be proud of it and don't shit on people who care more than you.
You should worry about strong passwords, but the point is moot if the rest of the system has other major flaws.
See: people who have their security answer as a long hex string, and customer service doesn't check the digits.
(It's also a good idea to, if you use correct answers, to not leave them on Fb or other places)